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You can call me B. I'm 18 years old and am a freshman studying music. I've been around for a while, been through a lot, and have seen everything my eyes are capable of seeing. Please feel free to drop a question in my inbox. I love helping people to the best of my capability. -Ms. B
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I am 16 years old & from Florida.
& so is the guy in my story.
here's the story...
Last October(2008)I met my stepbrother.
when i laid my eyes on him, I was immediately attracted. He was taller than me, finally! someone taller.. he had long hair and was/is skaterish looking. When we met he was formally dressed. He was on his way to church. Which is one of the things I love about him. He's christian and saving himself for marriage like me. Its so hard to find somebody like that these days.. He also plays guitar,sings a little, and is learning piano. Great, a musician. could he make it any harder me?! Anyways, his mother and I are the best of friends and she tells me everything about him. she and her daughter, my stepsister, even once compared us because we supposably have the same personality. which is awesome because i find myself kind of interesting. But the problem is that we are extremely shy around each other. If we have the same personality then I imagine him to be goofy and funny. But whenever we're around each other its just akward. So akward that we dont even talk. Not to each other, not to anyone. Thanksgiving the whole family was their and we were the only ones not talking at the table. Everyone was asking us if we were okay at times but I really wasnt. I'm falling in love with boy that is supposed to be like a brother figure now that my dad and his mom are married but I cant help it. I cant control my feelings, or what my heart desires. I daydream and he pops out of nowhere; I can't get him out of my head. We're related but not blood. Is that wrong? What should I do?
Its wrong, because technically your not related. If you were blood, then that would be another problem. If you think you'd like to start a relationship with him, then you need to talk to him about it. And then talk to your step mom or Dad about it. But, it is definitely not wrong to date your stepbrother. May be a bit awkward, but, not wrong.
-MsB
I argue with my girlfriend all the time.I try to do nice thing for her, but we always end up in a fight.I can't put up with this much linger-what can I do?
Talk to her about how your feeling about the relationship. If she continues to argue with you, suggest a break, or, to break up. You need to put yourself before anyone else, if you're unhappy with how the relationships going, then you need to end it. Good Luck!
-MsB