My name is Summer Hunter. I grew up a farm girl in Manitoba even though my background doesn't look it i am a full Canadian. I have always had amazing adivce to give; probably because i am always very open minded and mindful of peoples concerns and problems. Feel free to ask me anything - even though you may not get the answer you predict you will get. (People tell me i always have an interesting veiw on things.)
Gender: Female
Location: Manitoba, Canada
Age: 19
Member Since: January 18, 2009
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Last Update: February 15, 2009
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im 16, and never had my first kiss yet. even though im pretty sad that i still never had one, i love to hear stories about other peoples' first kisses! it makes me excited for mine :) so whoever reading this, hopefully youll share your story! thank youuu:) (link)
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Dear First Kisses,
Really not being kissed at 16 isn't that big of a deal. If you rush it making it so important that you have that kiss you will go out with any random guy just to get it. This will mean he won't really care about you, your feelings, or your dreams. If a guy decides to just like that go out then he probably isn't wanting to get to know you, he just wants to USE you. This will mean that you are trusting him with your first kiss. A kiss that he either will accept, blow off and won't appreaciate OR he will abuse it and take you farther than you want because he thinks your that kind of a girl. Many girls also form an emotional bond with their first love and if he doesn't love you hi will treat your heart like it is a trophy. Not as a treasure. My best advise is to WAIT. There will come along the right guy for YOU! When that perfect guy comes along and you know he is THE ONE you will feel terrible that you didn't save your first kiss. A first kiss in my opinion is alot like one's virginity; once taken it can never be given back.
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so i have a major crush on my gym teacher (he's a guy .. im a girl) and the other day he was talking to me and my friends and he kept looking over at me (not in a creepy way -- just in a conversational way) and smiling and i was smiling back .. and then when he walked away my friend told me i was blushing! and i didnt even mean to do it! i thought i was playing it cooll. hahha but i was pretty embarasssed. but my question is do guys like it when girls blush? im pretty shy too .. i mean i know guys like outgoing girls but what do they think about a little shyness? and do you think my teacher knows i have a crush on him? haha
ps those questions dont have anything to do with my teacher -- i just thought i would share my story haha (link)
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Dear Blushing,
To tell you the truth i think that this relationship or crush is really really not a good idea and will not go far. You are probably anywhere from 13 - 18 i would guess because you sound like you still are in school. There are some things you might not know about dating or liking teachers. Since you are most likely not an adult, going on a date or showing that you like your teacher can be embarassing and unnessasary. To put your gym teacher on the line like that isn't fair either. He could easily loose his job if it got out that he likes you or is having a "secret relationship" with one of his students. He would get fired and never EVER get hired as a teacher again or in any other government employment. That means the 3-5 years that he spent in university to become a gym teacher would be worthless. Don't think that it won't get out either. Any parent can file the report in that the see that he is liking you. Are any of your friends going to let it slip that you have a crush on him to your parents. Imagine the problems you would have at home if your parents found out. You sound like a wonderful girl who really just wants to be loved and you think that an older guy will make your friends look up to you. Find someone your own age that can apreaciate you right now. I hope you all the best luck.
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how can i tell if my boyfriend of 1 month (sat.) is going to break up with me. my friend is saying im over reacting. cause he doesnt always text people back. but lke all this 3 day weekend i barely talked to him. he either didnt text me back. or he didnt text me first. and im so scared hes going to break up with me.so i say im not going to text him or anything so he wont be annoyed but then it kills me. cause i want to talk to him so bad. and i get all these jealous urges. and im really working on them. so someone please tell me what are some signs he is going to breakup with me. am i thinking too much? or what? please! and thankyou!! (link)
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First of all he is your boyfriend of 1 month not 1 year. Lady you do have serious jelousy issues that YOU need to fix before you can ever trust your boyfriend. There isn't a very strong trust vibe floating around. You are always going to be saying to yourself when he doesn't return his texts Where is he? Is he cheating on me? Is another girl with him?... You will work yourself into such a tiszy that when he does return your texts you will be insulted or suspicious or angry and as much as you try to hide it guys are not THAT dense. He will pick up on your feeling and inturn feel insulted and become defensive. What you have is what i would call a perfectly faboulous wonderful relationship. DON'T mess it up by acting like an untrusting female.
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