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I recently got a boyfriend, maybe less than a week? Well, the first day, we basically talked about everything we could. Politics, religion, future, careers, family, friends, anything you can think of, but most of the topics didn't last long as he kept stopping and staring off into space, then asking me to talk to him.
It's awkward because I'm normally a reserved person who likes being alone a lot of the time so I can work on a story that I'm writing. He always wants to talk, but it's like he wants me to do most of the talking and I'm a very boring person. All I do is write, sleep, and eat... Sometimes hang out with friends.
Bascially I'm asking why our relationship is so awkward. Maybe it's just because it's how things start out? It didn't seem like that with my other relationships... Help me, please :(
16/f (link)
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well sweetie,
maybe its just not meant to be and its probably not cause it sounds like you guys are not comfortable with eachother which can go bad in a relationship like you should have a talk with him and tell him what you feel that he is not being open with you in the way that you have to drag everything out of him instead of him talking and telling you on his own...so try that out okay :)
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17/F
saturday my bf and i made plans to go out but my phone was out of minutes and i was stuck at home painting the walls. when i finaly turned my phome back on i called him, talked, and we rearanged plans. our new plan was for me to go home with him and his family, relax and eat there then go to the movies, we agreed i asked my mom and he did the same.
my mom said i was ok with her if i could clean up the livingroom, den and kitchen (with us painting the house those 3 rooms were messy) so i stayed up all night cleaning up. when i finally tried to go to sleep my alarm went off for me to go to church. during service i fell asleep (which is not like me) aand he woke me up, but i was only sleep for like 1min.
after church i went home with him and his family when we got to his house his mom started cooking and i started to fall asleep, untill he asked me to come out side and have some "us" time so i did after talking and picking up his aunt we went in his room to iron our clothes (and nothing else, the door was open) after i ironed my clothes and he did the same. i layed on the bed and started to fall asleep again untill he woke me up asking "are you ready to go?" my reply "when ever you are." so we got dressed and left.
we went out to eat and i paid (because every other week i pay and every other week he pays, it works for us) and instead of going to the movies we went to the store to waist time. when we were at his house, and i was going to sleep he told me what was on his mind. he wanted to "go some where with no interruptions just the 2 of us and have sex"... my reply was "i'm tired." well after we left the store we didn't know where else to go so he said "lets go somewhere quiet and just talk" so i said "ok"
we went down this dark road and finaly he pulled over in the middle of no-where. so we sat ther eno one said anything it was just an oquward... so i asked "whats on your mind?" and he said "its just me, you, and the earth. your voice and mines, no interruptions. i don't see why we're not having sex." i told him " my mind set is different form yours right now." so after an arguement and some quietness, i said "hey if you want, you can take me home." after 30min he took me home. so yesterday i texed him "hi" but he never texed back (i guess he was still mad) so now its another day and i haven't texed him and he hasn't texed me. i'm starting to say its over but b4 i do that, i wanna know, am i wrong? is he wrong? was i leading him on or something? i don't get it..
if i did something wrong, let me know i acept my faults. if he's wrong i believe in forgiving. i just need to know before i do something i'll regret. can u help me? please. (sorry for the misspelled words, i was rushing) (link)
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You know your not wrong at all...in what part do you think your wrong huh??? no, girl and he is not texting you cause he wants to make you feel bad which is obviously working dont let him do this to you all lhe is doing is being selfish cause he saw that you were tired and didnt bother telling oh well ill just take you home we will continue our date another day nope al he thought about was sex and what was oon his mind...and you shouldnt assume its over first confirm it and make sure what if something happened and was not able to respond??? you never know..hope I helped and keep your head up with a smile.. :)
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