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I'm 19 years old male, and I have never even dated anyone. I'm too scared to ask a girl out, or even talk to them. Any advice? (link)
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Don't be scared. Take risks. Sure, you might get turned down, but at least you tried. Go after the girl you want, before someone else makes her happy.
It's cliche, but true: Be yourself. There's no one better. Just saying, if you start out pretending to be someone you're really not, then girls will not like you for who you really are. And the girls who DO like you for your "original" personality won't see it anymore.
You can strike up a conversation about anything. Lead the conversation, make her laugh & don't toy wiht her emotions.
Hope that helped. :)
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I have been texting this guy since homecoming. He's nice and kind of funny but I'm definitely not interested. The other day he asked me who I want to go out with. I said I didn't know and I wasn't really into dating as of right now but if someone did ask me out i wouldn't mind. He said he was going on a date w/ this girl I knew. Then he invited me to go paintballing (which I've never done) with him and all his friends. He then gave my number to three guys who were going. I told him I couldn't go because (a: I didn't want to in the 1st place and b: I actually couldn't and didnt want to lead him on.) He then acted really sad about it. I havent texted him because I don't want to lead him on or make him mad. I'm really confused. Help? (link)
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Well, whatever you plan to do, just remember to break it to him gently. Just tell him that you're not looking for a relationship right now, but you really appreciate the attention he's giving to you and that you value him a lot, as a FRIEND. Normally, he'd be upset, but that's just the initial reaction of someone who's rejected. But tell him that by telling him you're not interested, that means that you care for him enough that you don't want him to get the wrong idea. You want the friendship to stay, but nothing more.
Hope that helped. :)
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I met a guy (Chris) through my guy friend.. (a guy friend I hadn't seen since about 2 years ago) we bumped into each other in a club. I've known Chris for over a month now.
Any way Chris flirted a little, asked for my fb and number and I gave it to him. He kissed me that night. We went on a date a week later and he seemed really nice.
Problem with him is, I have heard he still likes his ex. We have been in a bar with our friends and his ex has turned up, and they always end up talking... and the other night she turned up, started talking to him and him and his friends LEFT the bar with her and her friends! and left me and my friend in the other bar on our own, he didn't even say bye!
He flirts a lot but I think he's just using me to get over his ex. What do you think?
His guy friend also told me that Chris walked his ex home, and he thinks that he might still love her (they have been split up for 2 months) and I know they see each other at least once a week, they go to the same gym.
Oh, and I heard him say to her "come back to mine" even though he didn't know I was behind him. Thing is, he broke up with her so does he still really like her?
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He might not be totally over his ex yet. But it doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings for you. You should talk to him and ask him about where you guys stand as a couple. You could go around and investigate if you don't wanna talk to him personally just yet. But since your still unsure at the moment, it would be best if you take things slow. You don't want to get hurt in the end. :/
Hope that made some sense.
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i accidently called my gf fat what do i do ? (link)
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Why'd you say that? Hahaha. Seriously, just apologize and explain extensively why you said what you said. Be reasonable and be sensitive to her feelings. :)
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