Hey there, my name is Andie Smith and i am an advice columnist in my upcoming ezine.I love people and i have discovered that i have a knack for solving other peoples problems, so, it seemed only right that i become either an advice columnist or a PR woman!If there's anything you need you can talk to me, u know how to reach me. l8tr!
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I need help on asking a guy to come and watch a movie with me...i don't know how please help!!
I don't wanna look like a doofus.....lol:) (link)
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Do you know the kind of movies he likes? If so you could say "hey, i just rented this movie and i think you'd like it, wanna come over and watch it?". Play it calm though, if he sees you nervous, it could make him think it's a bigger deal than it is, thereby making him nervous and you appear very sketchy! Good luck!
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Ive met this great man and we get along in all aspects, but from the start he has said hes not sure about a relationship because of his past. Hes been so hurt and has built this huge wall around him. I have made it clear from the beginning that i do want a relationship. Who doesnt want to be loved as long as its with the right person? He has just recently figured out that i have started having feelings for him and it scares him. Now im scared of how honest to be with him about it because i dont want to lose him from my life, hes also a great friend. On the other hand i wish there was something i could do to get him to see how great we would be in a relationship. Help me, ive been seriously hurt in the past as well and i dont like this feeling i have in my stomach. What should i do? I am 33 years old and hes 36 and we both have children from previous relationships. (link)
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Congradulations, you have found a man! (Which is more than i can say for 40% of the women, i meet everyday).As for keeping him,i would like to say that there is no universal pep talk, you could give him to ease his fears, the best thing you can do is plead your case, and leave him alone.If his heart has been broken, he needs to see for himself that you are someone who will mend his fences,not jump right over them.The flipside to this: some walls can't be broken down;Even if you feel 100% sure you can make it work, he may not.If this turns out to be the case,then he might be a lost cause.
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