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Name: My name is Amanda.
Age: I'm 15.
Height: Sadly, i'm not even 5ft. -__-;;
Hair Color: The box said egyptain plum xD
Eye Color: Green.
School Life
What's your school's mascot? It's a panther thing..
School color(s)? Baby blue and white.
G.P.A.? I don't fuckin' know. o____X;;
Who is your favorite teacher? Mrs. Bambuhrg.
What do they teach? Biology.
Is this your favorite class? Hell no.
Internet
Do you use any instant messengers? Of course.
If so, which ones? MSN, AIM, and yahoo.
About how many hours a day do you spend online? 5 kajillion!
Do you have a digital camera? Yes.
If so, do you post pictures of yourself online? Yep all the time.
Music
Do you play any instruments? I play the flute and the drums.
If so, what one(s)? I just told you. o.o
3 Favorite Genres Of Music: Emo, screamo, and rock.
3 Favorite Bands: Another tragic ending, green day, red hot chilli peppers

advice

Theres this guy. and hes my close friend and he tells me he likes me and thinks about me alot and loves my eyes.Then he goes out with my friend. But he apologized to me 7347 times and said hes goin out with her for the wrong reasons and that when we were with her the one time that all he could think was me and how he hurt me. And he still tells me he wants to be with me and that he likes me a lot and even told some of his friends he might break up with my "friend" n get with me. But then today on my advice page he asked me a question about her n how he still likes her n how he heard shes gonna break up with him n he doesnt want to ruin the relationship by doin it first if its not true. It hurt to read that and i dont want to ber mad at him because its not in my nature.idk if i should wait for him or should i jus move on?? please help when i ask him about it he says " ur paranoid i like u"

I think that this guy is in between two girls right now and he isn't sure which way to go. How long have they been dating? Maybe he doesn't want to loose that bond with her. Maybe he is scared of making another commitment and maybe loosing something he never knew he had. I think you should leave him alone in a situation such as this. It will only lead to trouble with the girl and their will most likley be confrontation. I hope your problem gets solved. Good luck. ^_^
-ManderMuffin

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how do you know if a girl is devirginized based on her physical outlook and socialization??
does it easily show?
thank you.........

You don't know. You shouldn't be wondering, either because this just leads to the spreading of rumors and problems. Why do you even need to know? If it is your friend who you are wondering about, then you should talk to her about it. If she decides not to tell you, you should respect this. What I hate most about society today is the need to labalize people by their outer appearance. Get to know a person. A girl could dress very er.. Well, let's just say they could dress in very revealing clothing or be very outgoing and they could still be a virgin. Just the opposite applies, too. My friend isn't a virgin and she is a very quiet, nice, and she dresses in dickies hoodies and boy pants. I mean, you can never really tell.

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i have trouble committing to relationships when they get serious. i think it is because i dont want a relationship where i see a girl every day. i like dating once in awhile but if it starts to get too intense i usually back off and need some time by myself. girls that i date dont seem to understand that i get a little overwhelmed. i am a bit shy at first until i get to know someone but this doesnt seem to be the problem with this. what do you think i should do to get over it?

I think that you are just experiencing new things with girls right now and you are a little uneasy when it comes to making a commitment. Maybe you've always been the guy/girl that has alot of friends of the opposite sex and you can't really tell when you should start or end a relationship. I think right now you are changing and you seem like a very independant person. Don't be afraid to trust people and you don't always need to tend for yourself. I hope that i've helped you a little, if not I appologize.

-Mander

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I have a friend. And I want to move the relationship further. How do I do this, while keeping the friendship intact? How do I do this at all, especially after some stuff she has said to me recently?

Well, it depends on what KIND of stuff she has said to you recently. Has she said bad things, things that may lead you to believe that she wants to move the relationship further or just the opposite? Well, in any case you should tell her how you feel. That's the best way to tackle something like this. Of course if you are more timid and you want to be a little less obvious put some hints out to her. Say things to her like "You are a very important person in my life and I just want to make sure that we stay friends, no matter what happens" Something along those lines. Well, thank you for your question and be sure to im me if you have any more or if i'm not online you can just post a question here! Best of luck to you and your friend,

-Mander Muffin

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I am shy. And bad with women. So being shy and bad with women is no fun. How can I become more open and expressive?

-Always and forever, completely and totally naked.

First step to being better with women, be more open and less man-like. Ya, I know it sounds stupid and you probably hear it all the time but most of us don't always want the guy who takes steroids and never crys. So, anyways what I guess i'm trying to say is that you definatley have to be more open to your feelings and just be crazy. If your generaly not an outgoing person the best way to go (as always) is to BE YOURSELF! Show no fear in being yourself TEH GURLS WILL LOVE YOU FOR THAT! I know I would.

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He doesn't listen to me and has violated my um.."personal space" if you will. He doesn't care about what I have to say and I don't like him...I don't know what to do.

Have you reminded that asshole who's body that is? Hmm? Don't let him cross a line that you feel uncomfterable with. Make sure you let him know exactly how you feel. Second off, why are you dating him if you don't like him? Maybe you did but after he did that to you, you became a little hesitant to trust him? I think you should break things off with him, personally before it comes to a point where you both end up hating each other. That almost happened to me and my ex. We are good buddies now and I can talk to him.

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