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Q:
i'm the type of girl who's very
clingy and wants to know where
my boyfriend is and who he's with.
it's not because i don't trust him,
it's just because i always want to hear
his voice. my boyfriend used to be like
that but now after we've been going out
for a while, he doesn't call me as much
and he barely goes online and he doesn't
go to my school. i always call him and he
never calls me and i seem desperate calling
him every hour. =( but i can't help it.
how can i stop seeming desperate and stop the need to call my boyfriend every hour?
because he thinks it's getting annoying....
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There's no problem with being clingy-that's fine- the only problem is when you're obsessed. I don't think you're obsessed, don't worry. Just try to occupy your time with something else. If that doesn't work, and you absolutely NEED to hear his voice, make up an excuse to call him. Ask him for help on homework or something. Or, if you want him to call you, play hard to get. Don't call him. Look extra gorgeous at school so he'll HAVE to call you. Also, there's a chance that he could just be shy about calling you. If you've both got cell phones, try texting. Then he doesn't have to get nervous about talking to you, and you're still speaking to each other. That's about all I can say. Good luck.
=)
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Q: ok heres the thing i went to the movies 2 with this kid john ill call him and well he asked me to go to the movies but he never paid or anything and he is mad shy but the thing is he is annoying and stupid but i like him in a way and he is forever talking about his ex how he hates her and shit i guess what im trying to say is hes not so shy when he texts me but in person hes is and i dont know if i like him im thinking of only being friends with him because i dont know if theres anything else there but i was wondering should i get ride of him or should i try to work out my committment problems with him but i really dont think were compatible and maybe im to much for him to handle but i dont know how to break it to him if i do hes the kind of person who will talk a lot of shit and who is not so forgiving please help if you can im sorry if its confusing its confusing me
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If you don't like him in that way, don't go out with him. Just be friends. If he asks you to the movies, ask him if your friends can come too. If he says no, just tell him your parents won't let you go to the movies alone.
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Q: okay.. so im 15/f and my boyfriend 17/m got into a fight last night. see we have been together for a little over 5 months. we have only got into 3 big fights, counting this one.
last night we went to the movies, and then we hung out at his place. i was in a sad/bad mood so i didnt really talk to him all that much, but i got over it and we started talking, then had sex. Well, he has this game on his phone that i like to play.
&& his birthday is next month, and i was going to have a surprise party for him, i told his best friend, so i looked at his texting to see if his friend told him anything about it. and i saw that his friend asked if he was with me and my bf said yea, shes being the usal bitch. i mean, i didnt do anything to called a "bitch". i told him i wanted to go home and on the way home i was crying and stuff. then i got home and we got into a texting fight, and i told him i would never call him any names like that, and then today he was saying how i dont appreciate the things he does for me. and i said im sorry that you called me a bitch and i had sex with you. and he said that he told his friend that before we did anything.
well really theres more to it then that, but i cried all night and today.. am i over reacting?.. i mean i never had a boyfriend that does the things my boyfriend does for me. hes so sweet, and i do notice the things he does for me. i might not show how i love him, but i do, im just really scared of getting hurt like i did in the past... what should i do to show him that im sorry?... or should i even be sorry?
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You shouldn't be sorry. He's the one who hurt YOU. If he was a good boyfriend, he wouldn't be saying bad things about you. It sort of sounds like he's using you for sex. I mean, if he was saying that you were a bitch BEFORE you had sex, doesn't that kind of say something?
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This advice column is for the Westchester guild on Neopets.com. But others can use as well. =)
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Westchester Occupation: Pretty Commitee Leader Age: 13 Member Since: February 25, 2007 Answers: 13 Last Update: April 1, 2007 Visitors: 2114
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