Going through a major transitional phase in my life has made me much more aware of the other people around me and my relationships to them. I'm graduating college this year and entering law school in the fall, leaving behind the love of my life and embarking on something that will probably the hardest thing I've ever done.
I've got 21 years of experience in a lot of different fields.. I've been told I give great advice, although of course I never follow it myself!
Website: Invocation & Ritual Dance of the Young Pumpkin
E-mail: gobanana@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 21
AIM: Phunky Katie
Member Since: February 16, 2006
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I like this guy and hes punk but im preppy we talk online, on the phone (once in a while), and have gone to the movies together. but he always flirts with my friends idk what to do. maybe im paranoid but i think they flirt back. i dont no wut to do when he compiments them on their looks because he knows i like him! what to do? (link)
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He's probably just being sweet. Lots of people just flirt to be nice. Tell him how you really feel and see what happens.
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There's this guy in my History and Math class that's very popular and goodlooking. Recently, he's been acting different around me. Unusually nice. He complimented on my shirt and necklace, and asked how my tutoring was coming along, etc. He's also lately been acting really cocky, but in a playful way. I don't know if he's flirting. Does it seem so? Because I'm confused as to whether I should flirt back. He has a girlfriend, and that might make me look like an asshole (I don't have a crush on him at all, by the way). Also, if he wasn't flirting I would look like an asshole. What do you think I should do? (link)
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He might just be being friendly. If you're not interested, don't flirt back - especially if he's already seeing someone. Things might get a little dramaesque, you know? I'd be friendly back, but be a little guarded in case something strange is going on.
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im 13/f and i've just gotten my first boyfriend. He thinks of it as serious and so do I, he got me a dozen roses for Valentines and had them delivered to my 6th period class. I really like him and I wand to kiss him. I know this sounds incredibly stupid but does anyone have any advice because I'm really nervous and I don't know what to do and we're going to the movies saturday and I'm pretty sure he's gonna... (link)
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That's sweet that he sent you flowers!
Don't worry about the kissing. When it's right, it'll happen. It'll be awkward -- all first time kissing is! -- but it will certainly be sweet. :)
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I met this guy 2 years ago while we both we legally separated.I was not the other woman.I just had my divorce finalized but he is still ongoing.A lot of nasty custody and money issues on his side.We both had a separate apartments.We met and fall in love.Everytime my boyfriend faces a problem, he will withdraw and break up with me. He has problem having access to his children and was deppressed for not being able to see them for a period of 5 months strecth.His wife use the kids as pawns.We broke up everytime because of this.He will then come back again when he thinks he has sort out the issues. His wife met me and him while in the restaurant and eversince that, she has given him unlimited access to the kids. He is so overwhelmed with this new arrangement and now he said that he can't do both.Having a relationship and his kids in the picture.He broke up with me again. I know he is confused.This man was married for 15 years since the age of 22. He misses the family life but he don't love the wife anymore.Both had an affair and he left the marriage.I am deeply in love with this man and everytime he comes back, i will never give him a hard time cause i know how much his kids meant to him.I am disappointed with his decisions. He told me that he is going away with the kids and the wife for a holiday which is something he has not done so for the past 3 years.He wants to be close with the kids again. I am so heartbroken right now as i don't know if he will go back to his wife after being separated for 2 and half years. His wife wanted him back badly and she is trying so hard to have him back in his life. I am stuck.I really love this man but i'm torn as well because i really believe of the vows we make in marriage but my guts tell me that he is not going back with her. Too many resentments from the divorce proceedings and multiple affairs from both sides.Please help me.I keep thinking there is hope that he will come back again once he smooth this one out again.I can't quit thinking about this and i really believes i can be happy with this man. (link)
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It's not worth the heartache. He's got a on his plate that he needs to deal with on his own. He's withdrawn, because he dosen't know what to do and doesn't want to get you involved. Don't get yourself involved, either -- you'll just set yourself up for more heartache.
Let him go sort out his life. It won't be easy for you, but in the long run you're far better off than having to deal with him being on-again, off-again with you.
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