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Hey its Lindz. I like to dance and I love music. I've also played guitar for about 9 years. Sorry I havnt been on here for a while. Ask me anything....

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i like this guy stevie. a few days ago, i found out from lots of people that he likes me too! i was really happy but he knows i like him too so i dont understand why he wont ask me out. lol i never really asked out a guy before cause i think its more right for him to ask me hes really sweet around me and hints all the time but like i dont want to ask him. should i or wait?

Just talk to him about it or something. If your to shy then try writting him a note or talking to him online. Thats how I got my first boyfriend! Good luck :)

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I used to like this guy for like 2 yrs. i was soo freaked out that i couldn't even talk to him.(hes a yr older than me)...well then i realized that i had a crush on a completely different guy(3 yrs. older than me) and convinced myself that i didnt like the other one anymore....now me and the 1st guy talk a LOT and its soo cool!! everytime that i talk about my new crush...he either looks away or talks w/ me...i have stopped liking the 2nd guy but i haven't told the first one yet..but my problem is that i never stopped liking the 1st one...and i think he knows....but i dont want to tell him...and loose our releationship.
~Confused

Just keep being friends and maybe hint about it a bit. Good luck

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why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart?

I dont know, but I just got over a heart break. Dont worry, you'll get over it eventually

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Over the summer i spent most of my time with my infatuation...lets call him fred. So fred and i were dating on and off during the summer but we always liked each other. We never dated anyone else and we spent the days talking to each other or hanging out. Before school started he asked me out again and then went on a 2 and 1/2 week vaca. Sfter he got back he broke up with me. It was like the first thing he said to me. I was crushed. Because i felt that i fell in love with him...and at one point he told me "i love you" but when i asked him if he meant it he wasnt sure. Now that school has started he was introduced to my bestfriend...lets call her mary. I have been so crushed because they both like each other and mary isnt even being conciterate of my feelings. They always flirt in front of me and it drives me nuts. Some nights i even cry myself to sleep. How do i get over this? Or how do i win him back? I would rather win him back...i really loved him with all my heart...and still do...

btw, sorry it was so long, but i rate high!:-)

~Signed, Lost in Love

I just finshed going though that....and really, its not worth it. Just hang out with other people and try to consentrate on other things and keep yourself busy...I know its easier said than done but you know, it works. Good luck!

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Ok, well, my b/f and I just broke up a month ago and I still want to stay friends with him but lately hes been ignoring me. How do I talk to him with out making it seem weird?

Just talk to him about casual stuff, like a movie or some teacher in school.Hope I helped ya.

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hey yall, me and my X just broke up about a month ago.. i already have a new boyfriend, but i dont know if i really like him or just trying to get over my X. me and my X only went out for about 4 months, but the love we had for each other was amazing. but now me and my X arent on good terms and he blocked all my screen names and is talkin shit about me to all my friends. i just wanna let him know that i care but he takes it as being obsessive...but i know im not obsessed..i just miss him..how can he go to lovign me so much to hating me so much?? i mean, he knew my AIM password and deleted my whole list and it was the same as my email password..i guess he just guessed it was...and he changed it! why is he doing this??

well, probably he didnt want to break up with you in the first place, and now that your with another guy, it probably made him mad and he didnt know what to do about it except for take it out on you. Thats what I think. Good luck

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he makes hearts all the time, smiles at me and is nicer to me than usual. i like him but i dont know if he likes me. van anyone helkp / i give 5s for all attempts. thnx.

**prill-z**

Flirt with him a lot...and talk to him a lot. lol

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What are some things I can do to make a girl like me more... and also how do I tell a girl that I like her? I mean, I really want to tell her, but I'm too shy..
Please answer this question, I really need to know ASAP!

Well, flirt with her, but dont make it creepy because that'll just scare her away.Just spend some time hanging out with her like, with friends and stuff. Also, if you really want to tell her, then sometime when shes not with her friends just pull her aside and tell her! Good luck

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Hey Yall wow i have a problem im caught in between to guys that are absuoly awesome i love and adore! i wish i could only be with both of them and i cant live without either both! there both perfect one i wish i could be with every seconod of mi life and the other is in mi midn heck i feel that way about both of them theiir absoulty great i dont kno whut to do soo please im askin yall if you can help then plz help b.c i cant live without either i LOVE THEM1

Maybe you should just wait for a little bit and then see how you feel. If you still like them both, then just try to choose one and stick with them or try to get over them.

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Okay i am really good friends with my boyfriend and we've been going out since about 4 months ago. (we were friends first) Lately it hasnt been is fun dating him as it was at first, he used to wait for me outside my classes and talked to me SOOOO much more. I really think we need to break up, but i still want to be friends. How do i go about doing this? -kelly

Well, ok. I kinda know what your going through. One of my best friends went out with another one of my best friends about a month ago and it went the same way. Just tell him that your really sorry but its not fair to him to keep going out with him when you dont like him like that anymore, but you REALLY want to stay friends with him. Just make sure he knows how you feel. Sounds corny I know but hey its the truth. Good luck

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