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Hi, My name's Rae, I'm a 17/f. My 19 yr old boyfriend just left for the Navy like, an hour ago. He's going to basic training and I won't be able to talk to him on the phone as often or see him at all until 9 weeks (His family and I are driving to Chicago for his graduation in late March). I just need to know how I can deal with this. It's so hard for me to be away from someone that I truly love. We've been together for so long and I feel so out of place without him. Please, help. Love, Rae. (link)
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I was in a similar situation, so I know how you feel. What I did to pass the time during his BT was I would write down something(s) I wanted to tell him every day that I couldn't talk to him. When I could finally start sending him letters, it was the first thing I sent him and it really meant a lot for both of us.
There isn't much you can do to ease the seperation anxiety except to know that when you finally get to speak to him again, how much you've been thinking about him every day can actually be expressed into words-- because you've been writing it all down. And it just makes it that much more special when you're able to communicate again.
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ok im dating this girl and we are doing good
but i meet this other girl that im inlove with and i feel like losing my love for my gf
what should i do? (link)
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You need to figure out what problems you and your girlfriend have. If you were close with her, chances are you wouldn't love another girl.
Once you figure out what your problems are, decide if you want to try to work them out. If not, tell your girlfriend immediately the problems you have with the relationship and that you just can't deal with working through them.
Then, I'd give it a good month (or more, depending on how long you've been with your girlfriend) before getting hooked up with this new girl.
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ok well about 5 months ago i was going out with some guy named jason whom i really liked so much but we broke up because he started acting wierd...anyways well while we were still dating we would have so much fun and have good talks and stuff and i would tell my friend isabel all about it. she always would instigate and tell me that he probably used the same cheezy lines with everygirl and then it turns out that she likes him now and they keep on kissing each other and shes always telling me about it like if i actually wanted 2 know!! it really bothers me and i feel that she is so dumb cuz shes all talkin lemme say shit about him and now shes practically going out with him too!!
today we were in p.e. and she kept on playinq around and she hit me with a soda bottle in my face so i got mad and i socked her so hard on her head and she qot like really serious and damn im telling you it felt good! hahaha
well the thing is that my other friend told me that she kissed him 10 times today and i know for a fact shes going to be all rubbing it in my face tomorrow even tho she knows that i really liked him! plz help me!wut do i do when she tells me??what can i do to react in a calm way&pretend that it dosent bother me?..do i even pretend or just straight out tell her 2 shut da fliick up&stop being such a hoe-cak3?!plz help me friiends are so important to me like more than a guy but is she really supposed to be considered a friend after what she did?[[and i would understand if she REALLY REALLY liked him but she plays around with everyone like that even her cousins!..yez she macked on her cousin too just so he wouldnt go out with me!!]] thx in advance=]
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Guess those "cheezy" lines worked on her.
If she's even getting incestuous just so you can't get her cousin, she's going to do this to every guy that you like/likes you. I say you tell her immediately that you're not interested in being her friend anymore, because she's only in it to make you feel and look bad.
And, really, feel grateful that you got rid of that guy. You're going to find someone a whole lot better and that girl won't be around to mess with your relationship.
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Ok..I'm torn between two girls..I like both of em, but I'm not sure which one to get over..One I met a couple of days ago and everything just sorta clicked between me and her. The other one I met last year and she is like my best friend...So which one should I get over and which one should I ask out... Thanks in advance. (link)
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If the one girl is your best friend, I suggest trying things out with this new girl.
Hooking up with your best friend may eventually lead to deeper problems, such as losing a girlfriend AND your best friend. Also, if you get into petty arguements, you both know so much about each other all ready that it will cut deep.
However, I suggest you really weigh your feelings. If you truly feel that a relationship with your best friend would benefit you both and would make you the happiest, I say go for it!
Good luck with your decision.
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we went out for a year and a half and he cheated on me with some other girl then he cheated on her with me and told me we were gonna get back together.. we had sex and everything and he told me he loved me then out of nowhere he told me he doesnt think our relationship is gonna work out and told me he doesnt want to see me anymore. i told him i didnt wanna talk to him anymore because theres no reason because ill just keep falling in love with him and never get over him. the problem is he wont stop calling.. and he calls from private numbers. and he tries to be my friend! i dont get it does he still love me? (link)
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He's using you. If he keeps you in his good graces, then he can come back and do whatever he likes with you whenever he feels like it's convenient for him.
I'd hang up on him the next time he calls and every time after that. Once you distance yourself from him and the situation, you'll feel better and you'll be free to move on to another (hopefully more fulfilling) relationship.
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