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OK so me and my ex girlfriend broke up because she was crushin on another guy.....and i loved my choice on brakin up with her but i just i cant move on i just cant and each time i get a text message from her my heart jumps for joy and i loved er so much and she tells me she loves me everyday what should i do???? (link)
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It was good that you broke up with her when she liked someone else. That was the right thing to do. However, the fact that you're still in love with her and she's still in love with you is holding you back from experiencing new things. You ultimately need to ask yourself what YOU want, and what would make YOU happy. Consider the pro's and con's. If you don't take her back, what happens? Would you ever get over her? Would you be content? And would this be better or worse than if you did take her back? Do you trust her to be completely focused on you? It sounds to me like you want to take her back, and if that's the case, I think you should. If she does it again, I think you'll have your real answer, but if you're willing to give it another shot, you should.
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