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spunky! outgoing! i can ahve an attitude thoguh, only if you push buttons! i love to sing and dance! i play guitar! short hair 4'10 82lbs. 14yr old.....umm...... i love being active in sports, and clubs! i love the outdoors! umm i cantthink of n e thing eles.... lol
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i CANT get over the guy i like and i try to just hide the fact that i like him but everyone knows and i feel like he thinks im a dumbass for still holding on for as long as i have and when we went out he broke up with me so of course i was hurt by it and still am. so i dont know ive talked to him about it and everything and he says he understands but i dont know i want to get over him but i just cant......any sugustinons (link)
Surprisingly im kind of speechless..but one thing i can say is that if you ahve that strong of feelings for some 1, and you think it would work out, then i would say GO FOR IT! even if it means you asking him out...lol i know thats weird but hey, if you want something i say GO AND GET IT!


hey
well i like this guy right... and he says he likes me too ... cut he also likes like 10 other girls and he says he doesnt liek to have girlfriends... what should i do? should i like stop liking him or try to get him to only like me? but that would be like selfish...

thanks (link)
Well in my own opinion, i wouldnt keep trying to get that guy. If this guy that you like says he lies you, then he should like you enough to foget about all the other gurlz, but if he doesnt like you as much as oneof those other gurlz, then he should stop elading you on, so basically you shouldnt keep holding your breath. You shouldnt have to try THAT hard to get one little guy to liek you, it should be easy. But im not telling you to stop likeing him, i mean you can, but you dont have to, if you want to keep waiting around for him, instead of looking at you other options, then hey go for it, its your choice not mine, im just telling you what i would do, and i would look at my other options, cuz who knows maybe there could be a BETTER guy out there! you just never know!..if you ahve n e more questions just ask!

***SAMANTHA***


it seems like all i can think about is wanting to have sex or something... I kinda hate it and i dont know what to do.....please help me figure out how to just like feel normal and not all like freaking horny... thanks (link)
First off at this age its normal to have the feeling/urge to want or to have sex, so dont feel like you are "diffrent" or like you are feeling some thing that you arent suppose too, cuz its more common than you probably think. But okay this may be kinda weird/akward, but jacking off is also a none abnormal thing to do at this age. so dont feel like you are doing something you arent suppose to! But the most important thing i can tell you is dont go out and have sex with some random person, that you dont really know, or that you arent together with! Even if it would satisfy you, because it could be the biggest mistake of your life, so just think before your hormones jump out the window! If you have n e more questions just ask!!

***Samantha***


im in love wiht someone who doesnt love me back it really stninks. what should i do becuase no matter how hard i try to get over him i cant. (link)
well first off lemmie just say that i know how you feel, im going through the same thing rihgt now! lol :) and another thing is love hurts, and its difficult, and unfortionatley it always will be... but there are a couple of things you can do to keep yourself from thinkinga bout him all hours of the day, you can try to find a hobby that keeps you really busy, or if you already ahve a hobby, out it to use, and take up some time wiht it! another thing you can do is concentrate more on school work, thats time consuming, we all know that! HAVE you confronted him about how you feel? maybe he still feels the same, and if not then maybe you should just tell him n e wayz, it always helps to get things out, and if your scared that he will think you are some kind of retard for telling him how you still feel, then screw him, that just means he wasnt ever worth it, and that you can do better, and that now you know how he really is, and it will just give yuo a reason to wanna be mad at him, therefore you wont miss him n e more. remember, im here if you have n e more questions


what is the best way to get a girl to like you and what do girls like????? (link)
well for me, guyz have to be REALLY flirty and NOT SHY, ummmm well a good thing to do, since valentines day is coming up, and the dance, maybe you should get her something that will let her know that you like her, then maybe ask her to the dance, then maybe things will lead to yall goin out lol, you just gotta be you, and try to find little ways to just let her know that you like her, but whatever you do, DONT act diffrent around her, cuz if she likes you, she likes you, not the guy you try to be around her, and DONT act weird around her, thats hte WORST and as far as what gurlz like, what do you mean like gifts? what???


....can u plzzzz help me.. ok.. there is a girl that i like and i wanna go out w her badly.. but she has a bf and they have been going out for a while now.. about 6 months or something.. and i like her soo much i can't get her out of my mind and i need some advice.. plz help.. (link)
i've already talked to you bout it on aim!


Hey sammy,

I've been gettin to know you a lil better for like i dunno 2 months or so. and i know u wanna know me better and stuff still, bu tshould i ask u out or not b cuz its been to short?? (link)
okay,
heres my whole thing, your an awesome guy, and yes, i have gotten to know you better, but, (this may sound stupid to you) im just not in apoint in my life right now where i need a boy friend, thats part of the reason i broke up wiht taylor h. if you wanna know why, well its b/c i have to many other things i need to be worring about, but that doesnt mean that i dont like you! so J*****, if you wanna wait you can, but im not asking you too, i dont care if you go out with some other chick, b/c me n u have never gone out, so i have no reason to get mad... say basically my answer would have to be no (right now).


How do i ask a girl out?? (link)
lol is this taylor??


hey sammy,
ok what if theres this guy that i like and everybody thinks he is cute too. And me and my firends go to a football game and i see him there and so do they. They see me feeling down so they go and talk to him. They come back saying that they asked him if he likes me. And he said yes and that he would go out with me if i liked him i said yes and so they went to go talk to him and they come back saying were going out but i would like to hear it from him. Because theres this girl that rides my bus and there allways flirting with each other even though he sits next to me. What should i do??!! About the girl and if were going out! (link)
okay, i know how you feel!!!!
okay first off, thats awesome that u have a bf!! okay but to your question. well maybe you should ask your bf bout it, but dont be rude or upset bout it. and if you think he is lying to you, maybe you should confront the girl on your bus, and just let her no to stay off you territory, but agian try as well as possible to do it n e nice way, you could start bragging about him or something you know
? so maybe she will get the hint that yall are goin out, and that she needs to back off lol.
but lemmie ask you something, is your boy friend a flirty guy naturally, if he doesnt even know it?....cuz if he is, maybe you should let him know in a sweet way, that he is flirting with that chick, and you feel upset bout it. just be truthful wiht him, thats the best way to go!!


hey sammy i was just wonderin...... see, i am kind of underdevoloped "down there". ok, i have a small penis, since nobody knows who i am, i can go ahead and say it.and just to let you know im not kidding and im not just some jerk. i want your advice, i mean, wat should i do? its not my fault im like this... and wat if i meet up with a girl and she sees it and shes not impressed? i think i am just screwed...... i mean i dont want to like take any drugs or anything... OK ill let you be the judge. it is 5 inches. is that too small? well i g2g. plz answwer all of my questions. thx lots sammy...... (link)

ummm okay, 1st off, your no all the way grown up, i mean in time you will get bigger. you just have to be patient. and 2ndly, if any girl dumps you for that reason, they were never worth it in the 1st place!!!! and for your last question, thats not that small, for your age, now if you were like 3in. i might be concerned...you just need to be patient! if you need more advice just ask!


hello. this is sort of weird telling you this on your own website, but, i have to tell you that i really like you. what can i do for you to be my gf. (link)
AAWWWW!!! omg!! who is this!!!!!

well first off, you cant be shy, you have to be funny, you have to talk to me like dont be scared to, ummmmmm you have to be a njice guy od course, ummm what eles lol... i dunno... lol but maybe if you tell me who you are, i will be able to help you a little more!!! :)




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