Hey everyone! I'm 15 years old and I'm great at giving advice! I'd love to answer any of your questions and feel free to ask me anything! I love to talk online, feel free to IM me, I also love to go to the beach, shopping, and all that other stuff. I'll talk to you later!
E-mail: lilshort3y1@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
AIM: lilshort3y1
Member Since: November 27, 2003
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Okay, there's this guy who I am madly in love with. I think of him 24/7, I doodle his name all over my school work, and I dream about him at night. But, as far as I know, he has no idea that I like him. Now he's got a girlfriend. I have no clue what to do. I mean, just because he has a girlfriend, doesn't mean that I can just turn off my feelings like they never existed. I mean, I cry everytime I see him and his girlfriend together. And I see him ALL the time. Everyday in class, weekends, summer. It's crazy. I just don't know what to do. But my problem is that I don't know how to tell him that I love him, because I'm positive that he doesn't feel the same way. All of my friends say I should move on...but it's just so hard. Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer. (link)
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You need to move on. Don't be obsessive over him. He has a grilfriend and you need to find someone who is single and you can get to know. It'll be hard, but you're going to have to try.
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I like this girl at my school but she is 1 year older than me and in 1 grade ahead of me. She is on my bus and lives really close to me. I dont think she is very popular or has a boyfriend witch is good because im not very popular I mean I have a lot of friends but we are not in the popular group. How should I ask this girl out, do you think its even worth asking her out? Its so hard for me to think of what to say plus I dont know when to asker her out. (link)
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Hey! Get to know her first. A relationship will barely work if you don't know the person. Become friends with this girl, and see where you go from there. That'll be the best! If you need any more help feel free to ask me!
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OK there is a guy at school that everyone thinks i like, and the fact is I dont know
I enjoy spending time with him and he's nice, but I dont know if I like him that way >:( (link)
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It'll just have to take time, I kind of am in the situation you are in, I don't know if I like him, or I just like to be around him. I think you may actually like him, or it's just a really good friendship you like. You'll find out soon enough. Good Luck.
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Ok, so I've liked this guy for a while now and we're pretty good friends. The thing is though, he's not really looking for a girlfriend right now since he just broke up w/ a serious one. I think I love him and I would wait for him to be ready if I had to. But then there's this other guy... I'm almost 16 (the first guy's 17) and this guy's 20. My parents are kind of sketched out about his age and so am I. I met him at the mall a few days ago and we exchanged phone #'s (not something I do very often). He called me and says he wants to get together. I don't really feel too comfortable around this guy, and I barely know him. Also, if I get into something with this guy, what about the first one? Do i just forget about him? I'm really confused right now. I don't think the guy's a psycho but I don't know for sure. The first one is basically all that I've been looking for.
Sorry for the length, but I really need some help
Thanks a bunch!! ~Pom (link)
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Pom, It already sounds that you are a little nervous of dating a 20 year old. He may be a little to old for you, and may be looking for something else. Sounds like guy number 1 sounds good for you, he's your age, and wasn't some random guy you've met at the mall. Sounds like you have already figured this one out on your own. Stay safe, and stick with your own age right now. Don't hesitate to ask me anymore questions. lilshort3y1@yahoo.com
-Kachiri*
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i dont no if i am straight bi or a lesbian, i mean i always have the hots for guys but sometimes i catch my self checking out a girl its not all the time becuase then i would no but every once in a while i will check one out and i dont no why i would be like oo she has a nice butt or something like that even though i no i lean towards guys but i need help (link)
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Hey, that doesn't neccesarily mean your bi-sexual. A lot of girls check out other girls and compare themselves. It doesn't mean your sexually attracted. Girls are always like that, seeing their competition like, "Oh she has a bigger butt" Things like that. You'll just have to find out. But that's what I think. Good luck! Don't hesitate to ask me anything else!
-Kachiri*
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how do you get a guy to like you if you are not a very pretty girl? (link)
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Hey, don't ever TRY to get a guy to like you, don't change who you are to get someone to like you. That will never work. If you are trying to be someone other than who you really are, he'll see right through that. Be yourself, there's nothing wrong in that. If you don't think your very pretty, don't let that get to you, say things to yourself like, "Hey, even though I'm not the prettiest, I can find other things about myself that would be more attractive!" In example, have a great personality, guys will notice that. That's many of the things that gets a guy to look, to notice. Good Luck! :)
-Kachiri*
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Is there any open and unambiguous way to let a girl know she's charming, gorgeous, mesmerizing and brilliant without being miscontrued?
What if such a misconstrual would be right :) ? (link)
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Hey, just tell it to her openly, but sincerely. She'll see right through if it's fony. Be sincere, and just tell her, "You're amazing" and look into her eyes. Be romantic, but honest. Good luck!
-Kachiri*
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Alright, i just got back from hanging out with this guy (sry another guy prob hehe). well he and i like eachother and he kept talking about how he wanted to kiss me. However he never did. I know he isnt shy, because he definetly isnt if you knew him. So what's holding him back? He almost kissed me today, but then sorta changed his mind i guess...what could the problem be? I think he isn't sure if i want him to or not> How can I tell him that yes, I want him to kiss me, without freaking him out?
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Hey, this guy is probably just nervous. If he already told you that he wanted to kiss you, I think he's dropping hints, but is too nervous to go for it himself. There really is no serious problem, he's just nervous. Let him know you're okay with him kissing you, or you make the move and go for it, that'll break the ice. I hope everything works out for you, good luck! And don't hesitate to ask me any other questions!
-Kachiri*
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