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My question for u is there is this guy that i know that goes to mi camp that likes me but i donot know wat to do beacuse idk if i feel the same wat do i do thanks?

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Well if you don't feel the same feelings for him as he feels for you just tell him because the worse thing you can do is give him the wrong impression. You don't want to lead him on. You should just explain yourself to him and tell him how you feel about him. If he likes you like he says he does he will understand and will not let it ruin your friendship. Try it and tell me how it works out if it doesn't go well i always have more advice!!

~Melissa Ann~


Mellissa,
Okay..dont tell anyone but i fell shy around my b/f what should i do? (link)
Well if you feel shy around your boyfriend tell him and maybe he feels the same way. It might just take sometime to get used to. Just think of him as a friend when you are with him not as a boyfriend it might help you relax around him. Most of all just be yourself because thats prolly why he likes you in the first place. Give it a try if you still feel shy around him i will always be here with more advice.


heres my situation..i been wit my bf for like ever and now all of a sudden his ex has been startin shit wit me..posting blogs on myspace about me callin me a stalker and all and writin stuff everywhere online about me and textin my bf and stuff all the time tryin to get bak wit him and he tells her to stop all the time and then after that she comes and starts crap wit me..i jus duno what to do and she told me now that he was wit her on saturday and the only thing is my bf wasnt wit me til saturday nite so im not sure..he told me he saw her on saturday but only to pay bak sum money he borrowed from her and thats how she knows i wasnt wit him and shes jus sayin that to start crap wit me but i am jus so unsure who to believe anymore..she runs to my bf and tells him im startin wit her and then he comes to me tellin me what she said and all and then i defend myself of course and he believes me kinda i guess and then she starts again..i jus duno if i should believe her or him..i kno it sounds badd but i think no matter what he does to me i cant let him go..hes amazing and i jus wish he would tell me the truth..unless he already has..im so unsure nemore..i duno if he cheated or not..so unsure..what do u think?..if u wanna kno more jus tell me and ill tell you nething you wanna kno..i just need advice though..this is tearing me up and its not like i dont trust him because i do but still when she says stuff to me it makes me think..i been hurt real badd before by sum1 and im not tryin to go through it again.. (link)
Don't feel bad about it the same thing has happened to me before. If it was me i would kick that little bitches ass but belive me that won't solve anything.
If your boyfriend says he didn't do anything with her you should belive him. But don't upsess over it and not trust him because that will lead to problems of their own. Has he ever done anything that would give you the reason not to trust him? I would just talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. Talking can solve most of your promlems. Tell me how it goes and if you still have problems i will always have more advice




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