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Q: Laney...
so i know you are very smart and i think the world of you so im gonna ask your advice on this...
ive been dating this guy for like 2 and 1/2 years now, we are both in college but live in different towns. i recently went down to visit him and had a great time. when i got back to my hometown that i hate and cant wiat to get out of i got word from someone that talked to someone that talked to someone that has supposedly dated my boyfriend for 2 months but they ended up breaking up bc she found out about me. i asked him about it and he says that shes just a psycho that wants to look cool by saying she dated a football player. i know you know who i am and know everything about me and my relationship but without putting names in this (if you guess who it is answer as if you didn tknow) what do youthink? do you think he did date 2 of us at one point and wont tell me about it and is denying it. or do you think it is completely ridiculous that he would continue to date me (and must love me to continue to stay with me) if he could date someone there?
i love you
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haha i def. know who this is.. and your boy friend lets just call him Bob... wouldn't ever do that to you. Honestly, from what i've seen.. Bob is your soul mate & would do anything for you...i doubt that if he had a girl friend in his town he would date you... there would be no reason to!!! we have talked about this MANNNYY times.. (ha) but i can see how you would be still having doubts... but i think everything is going to be okay... i love you and Bob together! ya'll are meant for one another!! haha! i love you so much and have no idea what i would do without you! you are such an amazing person & you have so much going for you! i look up to you in everyway... well except the fact that you cant stay on a diet for more than 24 hours.. which i dont look up too because im on a diet right now! haha .. honestly tho.. i think everything will be okay with him.. he loves you & like we've said before .. *he is getting scared because marrige should be soon* i love you with all of my heart and more .. i miss the hell outta you & cannot wiat for AUGUST 5!! because of 2 things.. u will be here & DUKES OF HAZZARD! haha sorry this is a lil off topic.. but anyways.. i love you & miss you tooonnss!
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Q: laney
me and my bf are really close but i have a really hard time trusting him and i don't even kno why. the things i worry about have never even happened. what can i do to help get over this i'm going CRRRRAAZAY!
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it is probably just a phase you're going through.. try talking to him about it, it will probably make you feel a lot better!!! hope i helped!!!
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Q: ok, me n this girl liked each other and when i asked her out she told me she wanted to be single for the sumer but she still liked me. Do u think i should try to bak with her next year, or just forget about it?
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try keeping in touch with her over the summer... it will help her feelings to stay in tact.. then if ya'll hit it off over the summer, then yeah def. try next year!!! hope i helped!
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Q: i like this guy, he has a girlfriend, what do i do?
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you can't do anything... because its not right to interfere in their relationship
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Q: Okay, so I've gone out with this guy literally 4 or 5 times. He's broken up with me about 3 of those times. And they were good relationships.. but after he broke up with me in November I was definetly through with him and I wanted to move on. So about a month ago I started going out with a guy I REALLY like and we're extremely close and he's an awesome boyfriend, but my ex-boyfriend has started calling me again. He's telling me all these things and trying to make me break up with my boyfriend when I REALLY don't, but I don't want my ex-boyfriend to hate me. I just want to be friends with him. And he's like "Please just give it one more try." but.. he's probably said that to me a trillion times! Agh help!
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If this guy has broken up with you THREE times.. you can't break up with a guy that you like for someone that is probably, most likely, going to break up with you again! If it were me, i'd tell the old guy that he has hurt u way too many times and that you like someone else now! He has to understand and if he doesn't he's an ass anyways! Be friends with him but you dont want to set urself up to get hurt again! Hope i helped!
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Q: Ok, laney i need help on getting over a guy...well there is this guy and i was dating him for a while and then for like 3 nights straight we didnt talk ...well then i texted him and was like babe y dont we talk anymore an he was like iono and then i was like well i think we should talk more and then he said that i was taking this relationship to serious and that we should just take a break.. but he has no clue how much he means to me and i tried talking to him but he just ignores me! please help
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okay...same thing happend to me... i know this seems dumb but... playing HARD TO GET will neverrr fail.. dont call him*dont text him*dont see him*dont i/m him... just wait for it all to happen to you! he'll be missing you sooo bad and wantin you back .. and then finally he'll get over his MACHONESS and be nice to you and not ignore you...trust me.. i did it! *-)
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Q: Du u still have feelings for any of your ex boyfriends? And by feelings i mean like still like them at all?
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let me just put it simply...
*The Feelings Of A First Love Never Fade Away
i'm not going to say "yes" or "no" but...let that quote say something!
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Q: hey hey ok so theres this guy... i really liked him... ALOT... and he liked me... we dated for a while and then all of a sudden he said he didnt like me anymore.. yes i cried i was sooooooooooooooooo sad. i still really wanna be friends with him but he never talks to me anymore... im really sad now.. what do i do??? ahhh!!! i like loooooved him!!! : (
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you make the effort to talk to him!! maybe he's afraid to talk to you!!!
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Q: okay...so im having some boy issues...there is this one guy who i dated before and we started talking again...and hes really in love with me..and i love him..but i still like other people...and he asked me out but i told him we should wait a while...what do i do when i while comes by and i love him but i still like other people..i cant say no i like other people too cuz i would prolli lose him and never get another chance...i just kind of wanna keep him around...but still be able to flirt and be with other guys...what do i do?
*-BummBled BrunEtte-*
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okay...thats excatly how i feel about this guy named Austin. i dated him for a while and i loved him and i know he loves me...but right now im with someone else.. you have to let him go...if he's still there for you waiting for you when ur finished messing around and wanna settle .. then he's the onE! its a test!
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Q: well ok, heres the thing. my feelings are extremely hard to explain cause i cant put them into words (so sorry if i make no sense), but this guy and i had a thing (never went out but close) and that was a few months ago, but now we are friends, and i know i have liked him this entire time, i havent told him or anything..and just when im starting to come to the realization that im over him,and then my friend likes him. i feel bad for being so jealous but i cant help it (i have not told him or her this). i dont really like him, but it still hurts if he likes someone else you know? so gosh im so stuck on what to do because i wanna move on soo bad, but at the same time, i want him to like me. ugh its insane and i cant even decribe what i feel but there is no other guy like him and thats why its so hard...what do i do?
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first of all..thats incredibly disrespectful for you friend to like him if ya'll had a thing. if i did that to one of my friends i probably wouldnt be their friend anymore. but, you should probably talk to her about it first before him. bc if she finds out from him or someone else the story will be wayyy twisted around. but for now let him go...i think that if you let him go and he comes back to you..then he really is a good guy! jealousy is normal i still get jealous of my boyfriends ex-girlfriend and thats fine!! just don't let everyone know it and def. DONT talk bad about her behind her back!!!! i hope i helped!
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Q: well theres a guy.. and he has great potential to be liked and all, but it seems he only wants to talk to me about weird stuff. and i know that hes really like that, because hes a great guy underneath everything, but sometimes i cant tell what his real motives are, so it leaves me to where i cant decide whether its good to move on with him or not
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i think that you should probably keep the relationship there..& in about a month if it contiunes be like.."dude, all u want to tlak about is weird stuff" maybe he'll realize it!!
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Q: hey how do i tell my boyfriend im gay?
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..uh just tell him? i mean hes ur boy friend he deserves to know!
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Q: ok it seems that girls tend not to like the non-preppy kids. i am not a prep, not ur typical whiteboy. but i like this girl that goes for preps wat should i try to do to get her to like me.
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Uh.....try talking to her. i dunno really! try just telling her that you like you .. u nevvverr know!
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Q: I really like this guy but he sends me tons of mixed signals...like he flirts w/ me then he will turn around and flirt w/ my friends. I just dont know how to tell...how do u get a guy to like you?
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Talk to him, tell him that you feel like he's sending you tons of mixed signals!!! I mean he could think that you dont like him! best thing to do: *TALK TO HIM!!!!!* Much love, *lane!*
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Q: what do you do if you like someone that has a gf?
how do you stop liking a guy?
does hottness matter to you?
would you date someone younger than you?
how far have you gone with a guy?
how far have you gone with a girl?
would you do any of the above 2 again if you had the chance?
hmm thanks!
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-talk to them
-in time your feelings will fade
-uh...sometimes. if their hott and no personality hellll no! but if they're okay and have a great personality heellllls yess! haha
-i dunno about right now!
-made out
-nothing
-yes...i would make out again! haha
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Q: I really like this guy but one of my friends that knows that I like him always flirts with him right in front of me. What's a girl to do?
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All you can do is talk to her. Tell her that you like him and it's not fair for her to do that. Much Love, *lane!*
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: October 27, 2004 Answers: 47 Last Update: June 16, 2005 Visitors: 13186
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