Hey ya'll, I'm Evie, and I promise to give advice to every problem no matter how complicated. I'm blunt with answers to problems, so I'll always be truthful and give my honest advice. I know what it feels like when you think no one wants to listen to your problems, but I'm here to listen, and to help you with them the best that I can.
I've been through a lot..And not just with issues with guys, a lot of family problems too. So I can relate to a lot.
I'm 14 and from Wisconsin. I love figure skating (life long sport),running,softball, swimming, animals, being near the ocean, going on vacations, going to movies, hanging out with friends,harry potter,guys, reading, writing, and just plain old having fun! =)
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Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!
-Nerveous (link)
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Try talking with him (hard I know) and telling him that you want to take things slow. If he really loves you for who you are, he'll agree, of course...he's a guy and we won't wait forever (rolls eyes) But I see no reason why he shouldn't wait, me and my boyfriend didn't make out for 4 months after going out.
If he's still persistent, and you don't feel comfortable, than he's not worth it, find a guy who'll wait and is worth your time.
But remember, making out doesn't nessisarily lead to bad things like sex and stuff, as long as it's just kissing, it can be alright, but if you don't feel comfortable thats perfectly ok =)
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alriitee..i`m c0nfused ab0ut my boyfriend..he says he l0ves me, but i haven`t talked to him in a while...we`ve been q0inq 0ut f0r ab0ut a year n0w and he d0esn`t call me..hardly ever unless i tell him t0. we talk 0nline and stuFf and we`ve d0ne s0me stuff 2qether and its qreat..but i d0n`t kn0 if he`s shy 0r what. but whenever i d0 talk t0 him he`s always happy t0 talk t0 me and stuff, and i`m always happy t0 talk t0 him and he say`s he l0ves me and all, but wh0 knows-- s0meone help. thankS in advance* (link)
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First of all, talk to him, talking can do wonders. Tell him that sometimes it seems as if he doesn't love you as much as he claims, hopefully if all goes well and he really DOES love you he'll call you more and you guys can hang out more.
If he doesn't, if it doesn't work. Don't stay in the relationship, this is coming from experience, I'm in almost exactly the same dilemma, and I've fallen so deep that I can't get out...There are guys out there that you'll date who you won't have to question their love for you and who will give you the attention you need...You're worth more than a guy that won't call you =)
But talk with him first, don't give up yet
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i've never had a boyfriend, but everytime someone likes me and i feel like they are leading towards asking me out or anything i get really nervous and uncomfortable and i just wish i was out of the situation...i'm hoping it's just because i haven't really liked any of them, but is this normal?? (link)
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It's perfectly normal =) It could be for several reasons, you could be afraid of getting hurt, and not want to get involved in the first place to avoid getting your heart broken, but you should take chances. Everyone needs to take chances in life.
Or simply the right guy hasn't come along, you just might be picky, and there's nothing wrong with that. Whatever the reason is, it's perfectly normal.
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ok...i admit it,i kinda have a reputation fer being kinda slutty...but i dont do stuff...
even tho i'm kinda slutty...all these guyz expect stuff frum me n they obsess ovr me n it bugs me whenevr they do that(some try to touch me)...how do i get them 2 stop being perves and get them to lyk me for who i am??? (link)
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Well...you brought this on yourself. You say you have a rep for being slutty, and you don't do stuff, even though you're kind of slutty. Face it. If you're wearing slutty clothes and acting slutty guys aren't going to like you for who you are, becaus the way you present yourself says a lot about you. If you're wearing slutty clothes, a guy is going to think your slutty, so you brought this on yourself...figure it out
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Hey Should i break up with my P.A. relationship i haven't see her yet and i m really confused and i like this girl erica and samantha but erica is to young for me and samantha is like 2 years what should i dunno
Mike (link)
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I'd say...break up with her, how much younger is Erica? The long distance though, break it up, if you're feeling feelings for another girl, obviously your love isnt strong enough. Go for a girl that you'll be able to see, you'll be happy in the end
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I'll start from the beginning....
When I was little, i used to live in washington state, but then we moved when i was 8 years old.
this other family with this boy that had been in my 2nd and 3rd grade class moved to the same part of florida the same time we did, and we ended up going to the same school.
our families became close friends(my sister is about the same age as his little brother)
and we'd go over to each others houses a lot, and when we were little we used to come up w/ these little plays (some romantic, we'd "marry" each other...), and well, we got a little older. last year, he moved to orlando, and we spread apart a little. we saw them, and we were playing around and like fake kissing each other in this little "play" we made up (my little sister is only 8, and she really wanted to do a "play")
and now he's moving back to where we live. i dont kno if he likes me, but i kind of think i like him. what should i do?
signed,
confused love (link)
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If he moved to the same part of Florida as you did, and is moving back to where you are now, who knows? It could be happening for a reason. Get to know him more first, guys get sort of..."stressed" (for lack of better words) otherwise, especially after you haven't seen him reguarly for awhile. Be his friend, and after awhile, you'll probably get more signs from him, take things slow, don't just rush into planning how to ask him out, and eventually, it might just happen =) Good luck!
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