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I am unable to explain myself or this column in words... just ask questions...PLEASE
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Ok, first of all my girlfriend and I are both sophomores in High School. We've been together for just over two months but we've known each other for almost four years and everything is going okay. But i'm in the middle of a depression right now and its making me reconsider a lot of things. For your information we don't have a typical on-off high school sort of romance. See we've determined that we are soulmates and intend to marry when we can (we even made these cheap little pretend rings to wear until then); in short, we're very serious for teenage romance. My question centers around the speed of the relationship. We've basically done everything aside from sex and being a guy, I feel I should try to get it to that point, you know? But for some reason all I really want to do is slow down. I feel if I tell her this, she will think I'm not ready for the kind of relationship she wants. And if she does, she might want to find someone else. My question is should this relationship take a step back or stay where it is now?
My best advice to you is to take it slow... and if she is offended that you want to take it slower you can simply say 'if we are truly soulmates we will have the rest of our lives to savor eachoter in all ways.' my biggest concern is that time changes a lot of things, (maybe I'm just old and bitter :D ) and when I was a sophmore in highschool I rushed head first into a lot of situations that would have been easier to cope with had I slowed down a bit... two months isn't all that long a time to have been together not when you are talking about spending the rest of your lives together... so take it easy and do what you think is best for everyone..
I wish you both the best.
Luck to you both
Frost
i've got very strong feelings for a special someone at school... i've never had feelings like this before... i've gone so far as to lable it as love... but how can i know for sure if i love him/her?
~flaming pussy
Well, it's hard to tell, love is really hard to tell. If it is you'll recognize it in good time. Love is best understood when its reciprecated.
I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking?
I think that partially true, if you stop hunting for a guy you'll normaly find that there is one right there in front of you that you missed before... the only problem is that you have to be watching for it... if you close your eyes to it and just expect it to happen Mr. Right, will just walk by.
ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!
aaaawww! that really rather cute... I think, in my opinion, he might be interesting in getting to know you more, and getting to know you better means getting to like you... my suggestion.... give him a call some random time, and ask him if he'd be interesting in wreking a little random havoc.... nothing bad, just goofey fun stuff, movies, costume shops, malls, coffee houses, just say your looking for company, some one to go with while you do something fun, don't call it a date... just call it having fun. If you share any classes with him and he's remotely intelligent, feign the need for tutoring... (it worked once for me) otherwise, hope that helps... give him a call
I really like this guy. I just figured out that I have really liked him for a long time. See, he used to like me last year and the year before, and the whole time I liked him too, but I was sort of in denile because let's just say that he's not the most popular. A lot of people think that he likes me too, but I'm not sure because he flirts with a lot of girls. Today I was at a party and he was there, so I was kind of flirting with him. I really wanted to know who he likes, so I told my friend, Leah to tell him that she knows who I like. She said that to him, and he asked who but she didn't tell him because she's a really good friend. Later, he came up to ME and asked who I like. I didn't tell him because he's one of those people who would tell everybody that I like him if he doesn't like me. He said, "I'll tell you who I like, but you gotta tell me who you like right after". I said OK and he came over to me and whispered in my ear, "I like Jillian." The problem is, my name isn't Jillian. Everyone knew he was lying, but i dont know if he likes me or some1 else! The worst part is, in like a month he is moving out of this country, and I was thinking about telling him that I like him on his last day at school, but I dunno. HELP PLZ! sry i know its long
It's great liking some one and everything, and maybe you should even tell him that you like him, but as far as a relationship goes, if he's moving I wouldn't start anything because once he's gone you'll just cry that much harder. I have a ex in Brazil, it was really hard to deal with when he left.
I met a guy almost 5 years ago who was everything I could have ever wanted. He was perfect in every way for me...then we lost touch. We were too shy to keep in touch, but for awhile after we left each other...I can't stop thinking about how perfect it was. What do I do now?
Hunt him down... get back in touch, even if its just to smile and say I thought about you the other day and wondered what ever happened to you, being shy is cute and all that, but sometimes its that extra boost that locks things down.
ok well me and this guy like each other. but im afraid to do anything about it because well, he is a bit... faster w/ girls than i am comfortable w/. and he also does drugs and drinks and im straightedge. so i dont know if it would work out to well. he said hes quitting smoking and drinking but i highly doubt it. i really like this kid and i cant seem to get him out of my head but i dont know what to do.
Cut him out of your head with a jagged metal spoon and move on.... drugs and fast paced guys are almost always a dangerous mix... he'll drag you down faster than a lead fart.