Hey my name is Pamela or you could just call me Pam or kiwikisses or what ever i really don't care lol :o) I love to give out advice and from what i have heard i'm pretty good at giving out advice so if you have a question of any sort then please ask a question and i'll get to it as soon as possible!
=^..^= ~Pamie~
Website: ~*DreamyIllusions*~
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Member Since: October 24, 2003
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well,my boyfriend is not a virgin and I am. He is kinda pressuring me into having sex. I don't want to. What should I do?? (link)
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so he's pressuring you to have sex?? just tell him NO! tell him "i'm sorry i just don't want to so if you want to stay with me then wait until i'm ready" and if he breaks up with you then you know all he wanted was sex from you and you know your better then that.
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ok there is this guy .....and he is cute and everything...so i really wanna dance with him at the event next friday but.... my dad and brother are not allowing any danceing with boys ....plus my sis is going to so if she ses she will blab...what do i do? (link)
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Well first off all it's up to you what you do and if your sister does see you and she does blab oh well you might get grounded for a while but you probably had a great time but betraying your parents isn't very great but also you probably aren't going any father then you should right? lol just do what you need to. unless you also could explain that you won't go any farther then dancing and that's it. i hope this helps
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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my friends are telling me I shouldn't even try to be friends with my ex boyfriend because that never works, but I think it can sometimes. what do you think? (link)
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lol this sounds just like my problem and maybe it can work but wiht me and my ex we just kept on getting in more and more fights becaus ei was jealus that he was going out with my friend and everything else but everything happens for a reason but anyways lol i think you should do what ever feels right cuz everybody's differnt i have had friends who are friends with their ex's and they haven't fought at all since and their closer then ever so just see what happens
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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I have been divorced for almost a year, and have been seeing a guy from work for almost a year, but used to he would always want to be around me, touch me etc., now i almost have to force him to do anything. he says he still has the same feelings for me and the thing is that when we get into an arguement he always tells me to shut up, that I am f-ing stupid, or go to He@@. He always opologizes and I know he has had a really rough childhood, both parents dying, his dad shot his mom right in front of him and his grandad used to beat him, I can deal with thie emotional rollercoaster with him anymmore, should i try to work it out or kick him out?????
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I understand the part with his rough child hood but i mean he's amn now and that was the past and theres no sense on staying with him if he's like that because if he keeps doing that he may want to hurt you but it's hard to tell. so do what feels right.
I hope this helps
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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Okay. Here's the story. First I'll introduce the people that are involved or I will lose you. Rose is our age but went to a private school about an hour away this year. Another girl, Emily is still going to this school. Her sister Julianne just started going to our school and likes Billy. Last year, Billy liked Rose and found out that he liked her too. They didn't go on any dates or anything and Rose hasn't seen him since the end of the school year. Now, Billy likes Emily. Rose still thinks he likes her. Billy was going to ask Emily to the school dance last week but he didn't get the nerve to. For the first slow dance, he danced with Julianne. After Julianne, he danced all the dances wth Emily. Now Julianne is really jealous and not speaking to Billy or Emily. It may not seem like this is my business but i was there and witnessed it all and Billy asked me post it here after he heard about the site because his computer has a virus. He wants to know how to tell Rose he doesn't like her and how he should fix things up with Julianne and Emily and him. Any ideas? And I hope this made sense. (link)
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Hi um I think that Billy should slowly break it to her and say like "Rose, You know I liked you before? well right now i knda just like you as a friend" or something like that. but it's just an idea.
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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