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when im w. my boyfriend i am like on top of the world and i luv him alot..but then when i go home at night i have second thoughts and i get really confused on if i really do love him and if we should break up or not...what should i do because i dont wanna break up w. him when im w. him ...but i get so confused when were apart!

I have had this problem before... I think you subconciously might be scared to love him because there is a chance of getting hurt... You shouldn't break up with him.... If you really love him and he makes you happy then continue the relationship!!

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i get depressed like really easly.. like today at school i was really hyper and happy and all that but now im really up set and want to cry over nothing. i just randomly melt down.. is there anyway to stop this or is there a reason im like this?

Well I am no doctor so I can't diagnose you with anything, but to me it sounds like you could be bipolar or you could just be depressed (which is supposedly some chemical embalance in the brain) and you can get medicine for that... I have my ups and downs sometimes, and I go talk to a counselor every two weeks. I feel like it helps sometimes, but I also take medicine... I think that you should tell your parents they are you think you are depressed and see if you can get help... You might think its stupid right now but you are never gonna solve anything until you actually put forth some effort...

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