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I'm in love with this guy..but he just wants to be friends! I went out with this guy last August and he broke my heart by going back to his old girlfriend of 2yrs. This guy took my virginity and i took his. After we broke up in September I tryed my best to get over him..but instead all I could do is think about him. Well just this past Janurary he called me and told me that him and his girlfriend broke up and that he would like to see me. So about a week later we went on a date and we talked about alot of things and we came to a conclusion that we should just be friends for right now since he's in college and i'm in high school and it would be really hard to leave each other all the time since he has to go back to college, even know we done it once before and the relationship worked out great but it was hard! anyways I thought it would be a great idea just to be friends, well now that we are just friends its really hurting me because everytime I see him I want so much more it kills me that I can't kiss him no more or be in his arms because were just friends. It hurts me so bad to the point were I just want to tell him that I can't be his friend because everytime I see him it hurts me because I can't have what I want. Which is him! I will always love him no matter what and he knows that I just wish we could have the realationship we once had. please give me some advice on what to do..or what to tell him. Thanks
sex:female
Age:17
Everybody goes through this in life. And it's always asked. well i think the best thing is to ask him if ya'll can do the ol' "friend with benefits" thing. Ask him if ya'll can do the same things just in a more friendly way. I don't thin it'll hurt. just try it. It's not immature, lots of people do it. But if he doesn't want to do that either just forget it. I KNOW it's going to be hard but move on or you can get some help. Psychatrist, perhaps? or just get help from a close friend who you know that will care for you and your problem.
Well i hope i helped.
ok so me and this guy have been dating for almost three months. ever since we have dated i have had random blocked phone numbers call me saying i am a dick and not to hurt him... and how much they hate me... so i told my boy and he took care of that.. and latly the people have been spreading rumors that i am cheating on him and saying shit behind his back... and he is starting to double think our relationship... and he says he loves me to much to let me go but i am really scared that he is and i want to keep him cause this is the first boy i have really like this much... so what should i do to have them stop saying stuff to me and make my boy not believe it?? please help thanks
You might love him, but it's not worth it. if he's just going to break your heart because of stupid rumors you should put your heart up in sake. It's not like it came out of the love of his life's mouth. why would they say that? because they're jealous. they're jealous cause they can't have tight relationship like you& your boyfriends. I mean like it's your choice. you either get your heart broken or forget your boyfriend & move on to someone who isn't so into rumors.
I hope i helped.
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This guy i like, he knows i like him, we go to the same school and we speak on msn etc. The thing is on msn he kinda acts like he likes me, like i once done this favour for him and (on msn) he kept saying 'oh, your the best, your so great' for about an hour!!! But then, the next day he didn't mention it at all, he didn't even just say 'thanks'.
He won't have a proper convosation with me in public but on msn he won't stop talking to me. Like, he would talk to me in public like just messing around, but in class (he's in nearly all mine) all he would do is just give me a little smile but not say hi or anything. We sometimes hang out at lunch, but in a big group so we don't speak that much. But, when we mess around he like takes things from my pocket and that.
Is he doing this on purpose?? And what does he mean by it???
Please help xxx
it could be on purpose. i mean like he could be a very shy boy. & it's like way easier to talk on chat cause ya'll have no contact at all.He probably wants to just go up to you and hug you but he has no guts at all. he's those kind of boys that is shy as i dont know what & really gets scard to talk to the opposite sex. i bet that has happened to you once.