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My ex boyfriend is trying to get back with me. However he doesnt know I have another bf already nobody really knows about him except for my really close friends because I didnt want any gossip, drama, and my mom doesnt like him that much (she doesnt really like anybody that much). However, I found out that he asked one of my really good friends to be his girlfriend as well. I talked to him about it and he admitted it. He said that me and her are both beautiful and that he likes her a lot but he really loves me and that he didnt want to be alone and anyways he knew that she was going to say no. This sounds kind off like player to me but he denies it...I feel kind off like....okay so im your back up plan? no it doesnt work that way... he got mad when I told him what I thought...and i dated him for 5 months and know he´s a good guy. Lately a lot of my "friends" true faces came up...so I dont really know what to think... am I right to think that he´s just playing with me....and that...hes and idiot? in my eyes hes trying to get together with two girls since one was obviously going to say no then theres the back up one....Im nobody´s backup...and i have someone who loves me and truly cares about me....what should I say? am I right to think this way? Im 17 female... (link)
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I think your right. Just tell him you have somebody better and that you don't want to be anyone's back-up gf.-The truth. If it hurts him, Oh well, he deserves it. What he did was stupid. If he really 'loves' you than he would have never asked your friend out. Sounds to me like he's just tired of being single-and nobody want's him. LoL.
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theres this guy that i like, and he told me he doesnt like me..i accepted it. but he keeps telling people who dont even know me that i like him..why is he doing this? (link)
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He just wants to embarass you. Guys usually do this with this kind of situation. But, try to embarass him instead. THAT WOULD BE FUNNY!-childish but funny. He's being childish anyway so why not? But if you don't want to stoop to his level, the most you can do is just take it and act like it dosn't bother you. It will all stop soon enough
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okay, well. ive been talking to the guy for a few weeks now and we really like eachother. well one day when i was at school and he wasnt, i got a text from him saying "are you telling people were dating" i was like "no why would i say that" and then he was like "everyone keeps asking, i guess thats the current rumor" and i was like "well i didnt say anything" well he bleieves me. i found out who told people..and it is one of my friends. so i asked her about it and she said one of her GUY friends was saying he and my guy liked eachother and were about to date and he kept obsessing over my guy. so to get him to shut up she was like you do know him and (me) are going to date right. so then he told everyone. then i told my guy that the guy was telling everyone that they liked eachother..and..well okay im a girl. and the boy im talking to is straight..DOESNT LIKE GUYS AT ALL. and everyone knows that. but this kid thinks its okay to tell everyone..well my guy got really mad. and a some people keep saying he actually asked the other guy for head and shit and i dont know what to do at all. (link)
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Well... There isn't much that you can do really. The most you can do is try to get it cleared up. Tell people the truth and try to defend 'your guy'. I mean this is a touchy situation. Actucally the same thing is going on with these guys I know. But just don't argue or scream, that will make you sound defensive. Just try to have a conversation and if no one else believes you, that's their fault.
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