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Q: so my boyfriend really wants to do 69. but i don't know if i want to or not? anybody have any experiances with it? please tell me what you think about it. thanks
my suggestion...give it a try. it is amazing if the guy knows what he is doing down there. you just have to be careful b/c if either of you is the kind to where when you start getting pleasure you stop giving...you will have to stay focused. For me and my man...knowing we are giving the other pleasure hightens our own pleasure. Give it a try. if you end up not liking it ... you can say you tried.

Q: 16/f.

I met a guy online (very stupid idea, I know.) and well...we started talking on MSN (he's 18) for a couple of months. and then he starts telling me he cares for me. then in a week, he loves me and he has a major crush on me.
I'm like...wait wait...hold up..WHAT? You don't even know me..!
My question is....is it possible to actually feel love online?

He keeps on insisting it and I don't know if he's bullshitting me.

Advice?
I have to say, it is possible to care about someone online, but it's just as possible he's just trying to bs you. I myself met my girlfriend of more then two years on the internet. We exchanged emails, and called each other. I was going to be in her area one time, so we agreed to meet at her local library. Her brother came with her, but that was cool. It shows she was smart. You never know if the person you are meeting is actually the same person you thought you were or not. You just have to be careful, and make sure he's not messing with you.

Q: what does it feel like?
its the most amazing emotion you will ever feel. its different for different people. for some people it is a deffinate thing, some others it is more mysterious. you will know when you are in love, you wont have to question it, youi will just know

Q: What, exactly, does friends with benefits mean?
basically it is a guy and a girl who are having sex or sexual things (bj, hand job, blah blah blah) but yet they are not a couple, and are in a relationship with each other. Just freinds who happen to do sexual things together :D

Q:

my ex boyfriend is telling
people that im a bad kisser,
and that i dont know "how" to make out .

i've made out with more then one person already,
and no one has ever said anything about the way i make out.

is it just him, or do i really suck at life ?!

different men like different things. some men like , for example, more tounge than others. So obviously he just didnt like your technique. Tell him to shut his mouth and get over it. Maybe tell him you don't like his way of making out. if your others haven't complained, chances are its just him. leave him, he is probably not even worth it. If he is worth it, maybe you guys need to tell each other how you like it so you both can enjoy :D

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