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well about what i said about me being controlling there is more to it.... the thing i that there was this girl named alicia who some how had got his cell phone number they worked together ..... well i guess that she had a crush on him for a very long time and since she got his number they started talking...dont get me wrong i know he wont cheat on me okay and i know that he did not cheat on me with her the thing that hurt me was...that they would talk on the phone for 4-5 hours at a time... I always asked him not to speak to her anymore because when they talked she would always dog me saying that she can do him better and that he does not need to be with me.... the thing is that she never even met me or knew me.... I was scared that if they continued to talk that something might happen... so i cried and begged him to stop and he said that she ment nothing to him and so said then why dont you quit talking to her if she means nothing... well this was a huge conflict in our relationship because i was scared that something was going to happen and he said that it wouldent..but what could they possibly be talking about for that long nothing important..the other thing is that she would call his phone while we are together and i would answer it and she would tell me i had not right to answer his phone and that i dont have a right to talk to her because she was calling him ..well the way that i see it is that we do have a great relationship one that we can answer echothers phone without a problem so i had a right to!! anyways what would you think or do in this situation would you believe him (which i do i am just sensing things ) or would u think that something more then just friendship was there this was a while ago probally abot a year ago it is just on my chest
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i would believe him and i know you trust him.. its her you dont trust.. and tell him that. Just sit down with him and tell him how you feel and tell him that if he really cares for you he will stop talking to her.. at least for a little while. and if he wont then i think you should threaten to leave him.
i hope that helps!!
xoxoJessicaxoxo
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On Monday I broke up with my boyfriend that I had been with for almost 9 months. Sunday would've marked 9 months. Anyways, I really love him but I think he deserves someone better. We both knew we'd end up together in the end. Well yesterday we were talking and my friend told me that he told her that he wanted to get back with me so bad but he didn't think I wanted to get back with him. So I told him that I wanted to get back with him more than anything. This was all on the net so he told me that I would have to ask him out in person, which I was planning on doing anyway. Well last night we were happy and we were talking and he said he didn't know whether or not he wanted to get back with me because when we're together we're one and he has no control over his life. I said "I get it.. I'll go" and he said bye forever. He didn't even try to stop me. I told him I was going to do something really bad and he said he wouldn't feel guilty about it. A bunch of things were said between each of us and he ended up saying he wanted to talk to me just not then and he knew we'd end up together in the end. I just don't know what to do. Should I just stop talking to him and try to forget him (impossible), or should I wait? I need help. He was my last hope and last night after we stopped talking I cut myself and OD'd. I'm sorry it's so long but someone please tell me what to do. (link)
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Listen hun.. your to good for him!! dont hurt yourself over a guy.. even tho you love him hes not worth it.. give it time.. if its meant to be then it will be.. and if its not then that means your soul mate is still out there!! please dont hurt yourself again! and if you decide to please email me and talk to me!! im here for you!!baby_dawl55@hotmail.com
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me and my ex dated for 4months...not a long time i kno but everything was perfect we were totally in love and i realli had faith in our relationship well we broke up in august and i still havent found sum1 that makes me truly happy like chris did. my friend mentioned that i should date her exbf but now she changed her mind and doesnt want me to date him. i respect that because he is her exbf and stuff but she did kind of have my hopes up on finding someone who would treat me right and stuff. i dont kno lately its been goin through my head to just give up on a relationship right now because im only 15 but another part of me wants to keep looking. should i give up for now or keep on looking? i just dont know...~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~ (link)
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i have felt the same way.. the best thing for you to do is stop looking because when you arent looking that guy will come.. trust me on this.. it works.. and if you still feel for your ex then just keep in touch with him and see how that goes.. if its meant to be it will be
i hope i helped!! xoxoJessicaxoxo
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well I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. I feel i am insecure about myself and constantly feel myself feeling and thinking that i am not as pretty as the girls that he sees. I have become controlling because i tell him he cant look at other girls and he can not have girl friends. I feel if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls. I do not like him to work with pretty girls because i am afraid that he will flirt with them and not tell me. I get angry when he stares at other girls. We are constntly fighting. Is this all my fault. How can i stop being so scared that he is going to leave me for someone better. Even though everyday he says he wont i still get scared. And when i even see a pretty girl i say she is ugly so he wontlook . i know we care and love eachother so much . i do not want us to fight we are getting married soon please help my problem stop (link)
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Hey Hun! i was in the exact situation except it was him that was controlling me.. and i have to tell you that you should really try to talk to him about how u feel and how worried you are to loose him. he should understand and see where things go from there. but look at it this way.. if he hasnt cheated on you.. and he loves you then you dont have ANYTHING to worry about!! i hope this helps you!!!
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