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OK SEE I HAVE ONLY HAD LIKE 3 BOYFRIENDS BUT I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT I HAVE HAD A TON AND I HAVENT EVEM KISSED A GUY BUT MY FRIENDS THINK I HAVE MADE OUT WIT LIKE EVERY GUY I DATED WHATS WRONG WITH ME AM I LIKE A LIE AHOLIC? (link)
I think it's pretty normal to want to give people the impression that you have more experience than you actually do. You want to fit in, you want your friends to look up to you and think that you are attractive, in control and desired.

There is nothing wrong with you. It's also normal that you haven't kissed a guy. Take your time, there's no need to rush!

It's important to keep in mind that your experience with guys doesn't define you as a person. You don't need to impress your friends by telling them about your make-believe make-out sessions, and you don't need to make out with anyone to feel happy about yourself.


ok i really like this guy in new york were my mom lives and i live w\ my dad in michagen but if i leave my dad i would feel sooooooooooo guilty and i wouldn't be able to help him. should i live with mom or dad? i know what your gonna say your gonna say that i shouldn't have just that reason for living with her and i don't i have more but this is my main prob. so plez don't say that! (link)
Huh? You want to move because you like this guy? That's absurd! I'm not sure I would automaticaly uproot my life for a guy I LOVED, much less for a guy I LIKED. There are plenty of fish in the sea; you should go fishing in the city where you currently live.


How do you know when you are in love? I think I might be...but then again I don't think so, because if I really loved him, I could actually talk to him and not just stare at him until he looks at me, and then (at a perfect opportunity to talk to him.) quickly look away.

>>Toungue Tied & Confused (link)
I think that there is a lot of hoopla about love. Surely, it's nice to be in love, but it won't get you very far if you can't communicate with your loved one. I wouldn't worry too much about whether it is love or not and just go with the flow and see what happens.




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