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All my friends say my boyfriend is weard (mohawk) and an @$$. But he is always kind and respectful to me. Every time someone askeds me if i'm "really" going out with him they laught an say "wow, ok". I think i should dumb him but as i said "he is always kind and respectful to me" what should i do?!?!?!?!

dont listen to what other people think.
if hes nice & respectful thats all that matters.
dont just dump him because someone makes fun of you, so what if he looks a little different than other people at least you have a boyfriend that respects you. most of the time its hard to find a guy that shows respect. ♥

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i am a 16/f and i like a 19/m. we've been getting a lot closer lately and i know he likes me but i never gave him a straight answer if i like him. the thing is, i would love to go out with him and stuff, but he is my best friend's ex. they broke up because she cheated on him like five times. i couldn't believe she did that so i took him under my wing to try and cheer him up and we ended up liking each other. my best friend wants him back, but i'm quite sure he won't go back to her either because he's been hurt too many times or he likes me now. i guess what i am asking is, if you were in the same situation, would you risk breaking the friendship for the guy? do you think it would be possible to go out without telling her?

hey honey. well this is def one of the touqhest situations. this is qoinq to be hard for you either way.. but honestly if i was in this situation i would forqet the quy & stick with your best friend. i learned that the hard way, i was with a quy i was totally in love with... but then he started chosinq my friends.. he told me that i wasnt aloud to hanq around with my bestfriend anymore. i was totally crushed but, i was crazy about this quy so i just had to do whatever he wanted or i wasnt happy because he wasnt. so i just blew her off everytime & he told her that i hated her & a bunch of other bullshit liek that. well, it was horrible losinq her as a friend, espically qoinq with MONTHS without her.. finally it took me 11 months to realize i deserve better & that friends are wayy more important than some stupid controllinq boyfriend. think about it, i doubt your qoinq to qet married to this quy anyways. hes a little too old for you, nothinq wronq with that thouqh. but.. most of the times, relationships liek that with an older quy.. dont work out. i learned that also. even thouqh she has cheated on him before.. doesnt mean that she honestly meant too. it may seem liek it.. but this is your bestfriend were talkinq about. dont ever chose a quy over your bestfriend.. thats a horrible decision. espically if you know for a fact that she still has feelinqs for him. ♥

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Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now. Well I've stayed at he's house for the past 2 weeks straight, only been home 2x. My boyfriend loves that I stay there. He feels closer to me and he loves that feelings of having me around to make him happy and when he wakes up he LOVES to see my face sleeping next to hes..but ya whatever I have a problem though. He's little brother is really mean to me (only when he's friends are around) and he says I look like shit and I need to go home this isnt my house and im lazy and just bullshit. Plus he has a friend named trevor which is ALWAYS ALWAYS around him and he never leaves. he acts like its hes house and he tries to tell me to leave but i've been around way longer than him and I hate it soooo much, but im not going to go home because my boyfriend don't want me to..so what should I do about the other 2 guys and don't say "try to ignore them" cause trust me i have already tried that many of times.

wow, that does totally suck. well, what i would do is talk to you boyfriend about it. tell him that you know its silly to ask him to have his little brother leave you alone, but it buqs you. dont let him qet to you thouqh. i mean hes a little brother, their all annoyinq. i mean, maybe you could qet them back.. when you two are there alone, lock them out of the house & tell them to qo to trevors house for once or somethinq. or you could tell off trevor & tell him that he has no room to talk when hes there alot more than you are. just make up excuses. hopefully they will both qet the hint & fuck off. if not, im sorry.. this wasnt the qreatest advice or anythinq. hope i helped = ) qood luck with that one & qet me back because im curious on what happens. ♥

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