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15/f
ok well my boyfriend just kissed me for the 1st time. It was my first kiss but he didnt know that. it was our 1st kiss together. i went in for a simple kiss and he like ate my face. i didnt even know what he he was trying to do. OMG!
he was like i was to do that again but i told him i had to go to the bathroom. i avoided it for the rest of the nite. we were outside of his house and he tried over again. i just hugged him for a long time and then said goodbye.
what do i tell him cause i kind of laughed after
it was my first kiss and it was totally horrible =(

maybe he didn't realize that was was attacking your face he was probaly nervous because it was your first kiss with eachother he might have even been really excited. you sould tell him to take it down a notch=)

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So heres the deal i like a guy who has a gf, bad choice i know!. We've known eachother for about a year now but we just started hangin out a few months ago. Basically he told me that he liked me but i didnt know he had a gf and he didnt bother to tell me until the next time we hung out.Well one weekend we made out, i know thats REALLY bad and i feel bad that i did it but he doesnt. Hes proud of it and he talks to my best friend about it all the time. But he always has his arm around me and i catch him starin at me and smiling and he always hugs me bye. Do you think he actually likes me or am i just a hookup?

same thing happpen to me...i was really into this guy who had a g/f and we hooked up (a lot actually) while he still had a g/f ! i felt bad for the g/f but i couldn't resist. turns out i was more of a friend with benifits kinda girl. but i'd try and figure whats going on maybe don't give into him completely and play hard to get and see if he still wants more =)

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does making out with braces hurt?
because i'm getting them next tuesday..and i was just wondering for me & my boyfriend's sake. haha :)

when you make out with someone who has braces its the same as kissing someone who doesn't have braces. no difference =)

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do (most) girls like it when you finger them

I'm sure they do =)

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15/F
Lately, I've been getting really popular, after my first year of high school (I'll be a sophomore now). Anyways, basically, throughout middle school, not a SINGLE guy liked me. Now, I have like a lot of guys wanting me, but thats a different story. So basically, my family doesn't think that I'm popular because of the way I was in middle school (but I wasn't like a loser...). Anyways, I hang out with all these popular guys that want me AND theire ppopular friends like every day now, but my family doesn't know about it. Should I tell my mom that I'm hanging around boys, because she knows them: I went to elementary school with them and she thinks theyre all "sweet." What she DOESN't know is that together, we drink, and occasionally get high. So if I told her, she'd probably suspect that we're drinking, and then forbid me to hang out with them.

i supposes it would be a good idea that you tell your mom because i always hung out with boys and never told my mom and she was actually disapointed i didn't tell her (once she found out) i would tell her ... just not about the "other things" you do with them =)

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hey there! well, i listen to a lot of rap. but here latley i've been listening to totally different kinda music. stuff like tyler hilton and plain white t's and music from soundtracks of One Tree Hill and The O.C. so does anyone know of any other kinda music like that??? thanx!!!!!

Cartel
Dashboard Confessional
Teddy Geiger
Augustana
Hawk Nelson
New Found Glory
Lifehouse
Sugarcult
Taking Back Sunday
The Fray

i don't know maybe those can help ? =)

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i really need a quote.
sayind like you love and care about her, but you say you care about me. but why do you keep having to hurt me?

idk just something about cheating? love hurts? or w.e

She ran away with tears in her eyes;
boy, you just made the unbreakable girl break.



I keep telling myself to forget it. Memories will fade. I'll breathe slow and deep, life goes on. I'll keep living and my heart will still beat, but you're still there. You're always there.



& for once, she didn't want to sit there and wonder if she made the right choice; all she wanted was to be in his arms like before.



& she didn't know how much she cared
until she realized that he didn't care at all.



It's just another night;
another dream wasted on you.


I don't know if that is what you were looking for ... ? =)


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All of the other girls I know are always just SO happy and smiling all the time no matter what, it's like nothing could ever upset them.

I, however, am always frowning and mad/depressed looking and I can't help it. I just never feel happy. I have never been truly happy and whenever I do smile it's fake unless I'm laughing at something.

And the happy little perky ones are the ones who attract the most boys. Isn't it true that men are attracted to happy women?

I want to know how to be all happy and perky and cheerful and pleasant all the time. I've tried thinking happy thoughts but it just doesn't work. I only think about things that make me pissed, because my life is filled with them, and things about myself that I hate (plenty of those too).


please just answer.

who knows they could be do the same thing your doing ... have any questions just IM me at HAPPY2HELPx33 or EMAIL me at HAPPY2HELPx33@aim.com

if you just wanna talk and get some things out of your system feel free to =)

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14/f

this is long, sorry.

i know this guy named Corbin, & he goes to my church. he'll be in 10th grade, but i'll be in 9th. he's good friends with my brother, because they both like the same music and they were in the church worship band together.

i went down to this church camp for a cookout and concert w/ my church, and he was there. when we were waiting for the concert to start, me and him and like 5 other people from my church were out there. there was this piano, and i started to mess around and play this really pretty song, Clair DeLune. well he's like really good i guess, and he came over to the piano and showed me how i did it wrong, then played the first minute or so perfectly. and i kindof have a weakness for guys who are good on the piano/guitar/ect... and then when he was done, he played "The Luckiest" by Ben Folds, which is my favorite song and it's amazing. that song always makes me cry, so of course i teared up a little, and he gave me a big hug and such.

this concert was three christian rock bands, and the third one is called Our Hearts Hero. they're really good friends with our church and such. when they got on stage, i was in the front row, standing. and corbin came adn stood right behind me. there was other places to go, but idk. so when they started to play a slow and sad song, i looked in this mirror that was on the wall behind the stage, and i saw that corbin was looking at me. i was too scared to turn around, so i just payed attention to the band.

after the concert, corbin came over to me, and we started talking about showchoir and how i was thinkign about quitting, for next year. he's in the band that plays with them, and he was like begging me to do it, and he said "please? do it for me, we'll see eachother every day!"

soo the basic question i have here is that how can i know he likes me? i mean he goes to my church and i see him a lot so i don't want it to be awkward if i ask him and he says no.
i really want himt o like me because he's everything i want in a guy...

thanks in advance.

how cute =) ahah anyway i deffinetly think this boy corbin has something for you. i think the only way you can find out if he has feelings for you is if you continue to just hang around with him .... maybe plan to go somewhere together. but good luck !!

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how do I hook up without messing up. i'm hanging with this guy his weekend and i think were going to.. Ive heard people in my grade msissed there lips and kissed there chin. how do you land on there lips if ur eyes are closed. how dou breath and how do u no how to get your tounge in there and move it around!!!!!!! AH HELP

it pretty much just happens ... its just that simple its the only way i could describe it. its not something you really need to practice? i guess you good say... but don't be nervous and you won't mess up ... good luck!! =)

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