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hi. im jenny and im 14. this dude, adam who i hang around with is one of my bezzi mates and i always use to flirt with him for a joke. now he sometimes full on firts and for some resason he has asked me to make out wit him on our next school trip to alton towers! OMG! why the hell would he want to do that? i dont want him to use me! but the other thing is i have realy deep feeling for him. but to make it even more complicated my friend jamie who is gay fancys him. AND! this guy i like adam is trying to decide wether he is gay or bi or strait and i dont want to confuse him!!!! help me!!!!

Well, you like him, and he wants to do that because he seems to like you. But then again your friend likes him, and he may like your friend. My opinion is that you talk to your friend first. I know that it's tough because he might get mad, but it may be a bigger even mess later. Ask Jamie if it's ok for you to like him and try to hook up with him. I mean, you wouldnt want to lose his friendship. If he doesnt care, then go and makeout with Adam. You're not tricking him in any way or confusing him, just helping him sort out his sexuality.
Hope that helps

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I have this girl i met in darwin when i went for a holiday there and she likes me and i like her. But she dont wanna do long distance...
What do i do?

It's probably true she likes you, but I dont think she likes you enough. You're not going to give up everything to go move over there just to date her. I mean, if she doesnt want to do this little sacrifice it probably wouldnt work out anyways. My advice, stay friends. Maybe someday you'll live closer and then you can be together.

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