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Okay i am a 13/f and i want to have sex with my bf. We have known each other since pr-k. We have been dating for almost 3 months and things are getting to be really serious. i always told people i was going to stay a virgin until i get married but i dont think i can do it anymore. He worships the ground i walk on and he isnt like most 13 year old boys. He loves me for me and we have grown up togather so he knows everyhting i have been through. I want to have sex with him and he only wants to if i want to. i do but i dont want my parents not to trust me anymore i have told my mom about it and she said just to let her know. i did and she flipped so what do i do... Please help AND FAST!! (link)
My darling YOU ARE VERY YOUNG! Please don't rush in engaging yourself in such big steps of life. You are still going to meet with more guys in life and trust me when i tell you this, Charming one's. They will sweep you off your feet, and that is not love that you're feeling it is just a phase that you are going through.

Please don't rush things especially in these days, we are living in polluted world with many deases and viruses.


ok so me and my bf have been together for almost 6 months. im a virgin. and im 16 years old. and im a female. just so you know. well when we hug and kiss and stuff i want to keep doing it. and possibly go further. and i get this stuff in my underwear like while were together. its kinda clearish then it turns like kinda whitish. is this what it means to get wet? but me and him havent gotten that far at all. and i dont know how to get us a little further then we are. or how i can stop getting wet while im with him. it also kind of stinks is that normal? how do i make it not. i dont want him to smell it or see it or anything. please help me. im new to all these feelings. thankyou in advance. i rate. (link)
Yes it is normal to feel that way, it clearly shows that your hormones are working properly. And yes that means you are very wet, about the smelling part i wouldn't know cause i am a guy.

But what i can advice you is that don't rush into going to bed with him unless you are ready and PLEASE don't let him rush you into having sex. If he truly loves you, he would wait for you until you are ready to have it. But by the look of things he seems sweet, but i am no encouraging you to go and have him!

And always remember SAFE SEX, NO CONDOMS NO SEX!




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