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there was a guy that i went out with and then he told me he wanted to be single over the summer but he really broke up with me to go out with my bff. but then she was gonna break up with him for me to go out with him, but he brkoe up w/ her first and now is looking for a new girlfriend. what should i do to get him back but not sounding to eager to date him?

I know this sounds harsh, but you shouldn't go out with him at all. He broke up with you to go out with your best friend. Your best friend is messed up also because she went out with your ex right after. He b.s.ed you and gave you a lame exuse to breaking up. You're going to look stupid any way you look at it because he was fooling around with you. So if you try to get back with someone who lied to you, then you're going to either get hurt or look like a moron. Just move on. I suggest you talk to the next girl he goes out with and tell her how he is, because then she'll end up breaking up with him and he'll get revenge haha.

I hope I helped!
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hey dani i need some help,.... i have this friend that i really like and she likes me to (im a guy lol) but her best friend also likes me and whenever her best friend talks to me she tells me how much she likes me but i want to go out with the other girl and i dont want to make the other one hurt...

Well first of all, since I've had problems like this where I was in the girl that you don't like's situation... do not, I repeat, DO NOT put them against each other. That's the worst thing you could do to a girl is start a fight with her and her best friend. Obviously you don't want to hurt her, so don't talk to her about it. Talk to the one you like. Tell her that you care about her a lot and tell her what her friend is doing to you. Tell her to be nice to her friend but let her know that you don't have feelings for her. That maybe in the future things will change but for now, you're not ready for her. Talk to both of them and make sure you don't end up hurting her.

I hope I helped!!
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well theres this guy that im kind of seeing (jack) but hes really getting on my nerves now. i mean hes alright at times but hes always calling me and txting me and wont leave me alone. if i dont reply then he gets paranoid that im md at him and rings me even more. weve been seeing each other for like two weeks now and hes already said that he loves me!! i mean how can he? well anyway then theresthis otherguy that likes me! (noah) well noah doesnt like jack and keeps dissing him to my face. i think thats why i dont like jack anymore butthe thing is noah doesnt know that im seeing jack and jack doesnt know that im seeing noah. i dont know who the best. jack is reliable, safe and sweet but is clingy and all i want is to have fun. noah is fun and outgoing and spontanious and just so fun to be around but i dont get the feelin he can be relied on! what should i do? who should i pick?
sorry this is so long
i'll rate high for a good answer!!

Everyone has had a two-guy problem. Ask yourself if you have fun with Jack. I don't know about you, but I like it when guys are romantic, but I also like to have fun. If he's just a sweetheart but isn't outgoing then you'll get bored pretty easily. Honestly, I don't think either one of them is right for you. Jack you will get bored with and he's too clingy. And Noah is fun but doesn't seem like he'd be a good person to really talk to. Unless those things are true and I don't know that already. If I'm right, then you should first try telling Jack that he's being too clingy and that you like him. But that you feel things are moving too quickly. If he gets angry or upset then move onto Noah and see what happens with that. If both don't work out, then that's fine. There are other fish in the sea, and obviously it isn't hard for you to get a boyfriend. So have fun and I hope I helped.

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