Hey guys! My name is Chelsea and I'm 19 years old. I'm a full-time college student at St. Edwards University as a Journalism and Communications major. My goal is to start a new magazine someday. I really enjoy fashion and writing. I'm a vegetarian and I absolutely LOVE all kinds of music! My boyfriend and I are about to celerate our 3 year anniversary and we've truly been through it all together! Oh, and I love giving and receiving advice (it's always good to have an outside opinion), which is why I joined this site!! Well, I guess that's a good general overview of me! Hope to hear from you soon!!
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i went to my boyfriends hometown (arkansas) last weekend and he was all over me and then one day i snapped at him (yelling) on accident and i think he took it defensive because now he is snapping at me and he isn't all touchy feely with me these past two days now that we are back in missouri! and he noticed that i yelled at him cuz he told his mom that i did! and he hasnt really been himself around me these past two days and i dont know what to do! should i apologize for what i did? or what? i am a 14 year old young lady and i dont know what to do! (link)
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Well, I think instead of just saying "I'm sorry", you should really talk to him about what happened. Tell him that you feel that he has been acting differently lately and that you have a feeling it's because you snapped at him a few days back (which it might not be, it could be something else). See what he says then and go from there. I assume you are very sorry for snapping at him, so let him know how badly you feel for letting your feelings get out of control. I've accidently snapped at my boyfriend a few times, and afterwards, he'll act quiet or distant for awhile. When I notice, I'll ask him about it, apologize, talk to him, and then everything is back to normal! Hope everything works out for you!!
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hey okay .. there's 3 boys there all friends .. Mike .. Art and John .they all like me .. im good friends with them all and i like art. . but if i go out with art mike and john will be mad at me .. but i tryed to get mike to understand that i dont like him like that .. but he w0nt take no for an answer and i dont know wat to do .. i really like art . but i want mike to accept us being together .. x0o ash please please please help !!! (link)
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Well, you really have to ask yourself "Is having a relationship with Art worth giving up Mike and Josh as friends?". If your answer is yes, then you should go out with him. If not, then you should probably stay friends. There's no way to make John and Mike accept Art and you being together and you'll have to accept that. You need to tell them that you respect their feelings, but you'd like them to respect yours as well. If they were really your friends, they would be happy that you have found someone to have a relationship with: someone to make you happy in a way that no one else can! This dilemma will come up many times in your life: between friends and boyfriends. You have to deal with these dilemmas as they come. You really have to wonder if your friends are looking out for your best intrest or THEIR best interest. In this case, it sounds like your two friends are being selfish in not wanting you to have a relationship with Art. I say if you really want to be with Art, be with him, and stop caring about what others think. You have to live your life the way you want and disregard what others think or you'll never be happy. I hope I could help! Good luck with your situation!!
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Ok, so my friends are telling me this guy likes me, but it's not the guy I like. They said he might ask me out, but I don't have feelings for him. How can I say I don't want to go out w/ him without sounding mean? (link)
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Well, if this guy that likes you is a friend of yours or at least talks to you on a daily basis, just tell him that you enjoy being friends with him and you think that dating him would ruin that. Also, try not to give any signals that you like him as more than a friend! You don't want him to get the wrong idea. If he's not your friend and you don't really know him, on the other hand, you can tell him either that he's not your type or you'd like to be friends, but you don't think a relationship would work out between the two of you. Another option, although this may be a little forward, is to tell him that you're interested in someone else and you're very sorry. I hope I could help with your problem!!
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Hey (from a guys POV) do you like to kiss girls with lipgloss on? (link)
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My boyfriend complains all the time when I wear lipgloss because when we kiss, it gets all over his lips and it's sticky and shiny! He really likes it when I wear chapstick, especially one that tingles (I suggest Burts Bees chapstick). All boyfriends that I have had in the past have said the same thing. It's too bad, because I love lipgloss!!! Maybe a light lipgloss or chapstick would be better! I know I'm not a guy, but LOTS of guys complain to me about kissing with lipgloss! Hope I could help!!
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Hi im Jess i am 13 years old and i have a boyfriend that is the greatest. Well sometimes we have these little fights over something stupid and we usually brake up cause we were imature. Anyways now that we sorta grew up i was wondering after getting in a fight what can we do just to get past this problem so it wont result to an other brake up? plz help i rate good.
~From Jess~
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Basically, when arguing, make sure that you really listen to eachother's aruments and speak in a calm, respectful voice. Usually, the fights that end in break-ups are ones in which one or both people lose their temper and are not in control of their emotions. You can change this by calmly talking about your differences. Even though this is the most effective way to "have a disagreement" with a boyfriend or girlfriend, I realize that things can get out of hand and it can turn into a big fight. When this happens, just be aware of how much you care about eachother and think of all the good times you've had. When things escalate to the point that you may want to break up, just say something like "This is ridiculous. Let's just talk about this instead of arguing" and this will most likely make the other person more sympathetic to the situation.
A good rule my boyfriend and I have is that we never go to sleep mad at eachother. We always promise to work out everything before we go to bed. This is a great incentive to make a compromise about the situation or just agree to disagree! This has worked for us for 2 years now! Hope I helped! Good luck with your relationship!
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i've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and we still love each other a lot. i show him all the time how i feel about him, like by giving him a back rub or making him dinner. he tells me that he loves me and is still in love with me, but he never shows me anything that can prove what he says. he has a hard time saying i love you first. i just don't know what to do (link)
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People show their emotions in all different ways. For example, most males that are friends don't tell eachother they love eachother. They do things together like playing basketball, joking around together: it's their way of becoming closer and showing that they are friends. This has been a large problem in the communication between men and women. Women feel as if they need to express their feelings through doing this for others, while men are less outgoing about their feelings. If you are really concerned about this lack of expression, maybe you should sit down and tell him how you feel. Don't attack him, though! Just tell him that sometimes, you feel that you do so many things for him because you love him so very much and you don't feel that in return. Ask how he feels about you and why he feels uncomfortable saying "I love you" first. The best way to solve relationship problems are through honest, calm communication! Hope that I helped and that everything works out for you!
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Your boyfriend loves you very very much! Having said that, my question is as follows: Do you know how much your boyfriend loves you? (link)
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Well....How might you know how much my boyfriend loves me? Having said that, no, I don't know how much he loves me and I never will. I don't think anyone really knows how much we love them because as humans, we aren't able to express all the feelings and emotions we have. I do know that he loves me a lot, though, because he shows it all the time. He does nice things for me and tells me how much he loves me everyday. I just can never be sure of how much! But that doesn't bother me one bit, because he will never know how much I love him either.
Your question is very interesting. Any particular reason you asked it?
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Ok...my boyfriend broke up with my like.. 4months ago..so like in january.. the end of december.. and like i really really like him... and i want him to kno that i like him without like... tell him.. i mean i pretty much spelled it out for him..but hhe is like blind... well anywayz, i just need help!
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First of all, think of why you guys broke up in the first place. Most people who break up and then get back together end up breaking up again for the same reason they did the first time. He might already know that you like him, especially if he broke up with you. He might not care. You need to be honest with him about your feelings. Just tell him you think that the two of you have something very special and you care about him alot, then ask if he would be willing to give it another shot. If so, that's awesome! If not, move on. There are many more fish in the sea! Good luck!
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