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Hey, my name is Evan. Ask me anything. I will give you advice on anything or answer any question you have about whatever.
E-mail: EvJPleasant@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: Massachusetts
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: EvJPleasant
Member Since: October 8, 2006
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Last Update: November 11, 2006
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Ok well theres this boy.
and He's telling everyone that my boyfriend only hooked up with me so he could get something.
This boy is the boy I recently Turned down because He drinks..
and I found out that my Boyfriend doesnt drink, and that this boy is just telling everyone that.
Now my boyfriend wants to fight him..
Because hes saying a bunchh of stuff about us.
What can I do to make my boyfriend not want to fight and get himself in trouble? (link)
Tell him if he cares about you do not do this


Ok well I have a boyfriend right now.
But I had just recently Turned down this other guy because he drinks.
Not I find out that my boyfriend drinks too.
What can I do, so i dont look like an ass for turning down one drinker for another.

Ehhh its bad! (link)
Just say you were allready dating him when you found out and you wanna work around it instead of breaking up with him because you allready made a committment.


ok so heres the deal i like a boy and when ever i like someone i used to be able to tell them its just idk but this time i just cant find a good way to tell him, im just to scared, i dont no how to get over my fear of rejection. (link)
Maybe you should tell him on the phone. That way you dont have to look at him, but you still have to hear his voice. AIM is a choice but that is a little tacky.


Ok so i like my ex still alot we havent been together since liek 2 months or less n i still have lots of feelings so him n i cant get over him i try n stay away or not talk to him and its doesnt work when we were together i was so happy n we never faught n then we were over randomly so i was left there in love with him n that day i was gonna tell him i loved him but then it happened we were over. well its been like 2 months n i still love him n have the same feelings for him i wanna tell him but i dont know how to we're still friends but not good ones What should i do plz help (link)
I think you should tell him you still like him. Don't tell him that you love him. See how he feels about you. IF he likes you back then go out with him and then wait and say i love you.


Hello there Evan.
I need some of your advice.

I like more then one person. But I have very strong feelings for this person I used to date. We broke up and I still like him. I think he likes me, but I'm not sure. He may have a girlfriend though, but I think what we had is still there, just not as visible. I don't know what to do, seeing as I am trying to stay very good friends with him. Its hard, because my feelings get in the way. Hes a nice guy, but he can sometimes come off the wrong way. He means the world to me. If I did not know him, I don't know what I would do.

Also, I like this 'other' guy who used to like me atleast. He may still. I'm not sure if I could get into a relationship with him, only because of the past with the other guy I told you about. But, I like both of them. I dont' know what to do. I can't move on, yet I still like them both.
I dont even know if I want a relationship right now, but what if I got asked out, or something broke up the first guy, and he did still like me.

What to do?
Please help me out.
Thank You Kindly. (link)
Well if the first one really means the world to you and if he is single I think it seems like you like him more so talk to him.


oky, so i hve a questin 4 u. i wnt out wid this guy for a lil while, thn we broke up. i stll haved feelins for him, but hes sort of moved on. he had a gf now. but weneva i see him he lookz at me wid that same look he did whn we waz togethaz. i dnt know what to do. i lik more peopl now, but i nvr stpd havin strng feelins for him. we friends nd all but i donno how 2 make thse feelins go awy. should i 4get about him, mve on2 anutha guy, or C how he stll feelz. itz jst tht he has a gf, but idk. im so scrwd up rght now. wht do i duh? (link)
First of all, you drastically have to start typing words the are suppose to be spelt. It really hard to read what your wrote. Since he has a girlfriend it would be pretty twisted for you to go in and scrw them up so I think the best thing for you tto do right now is to leave it alone.


Hey Evan..Ive got this problem. Im falling for this amazing guy. My friends think I might have a chance with him from seeing the way he acts around me...but Im not sure. He asks to hang out all the time, and we talk everyday (he usually starts the conversations)well..heres the part where you come in: Ive decided I want to let him know how I feel, But Im not sure how to do it..any suggestions? (link)
Just tell him you think you like him. Dosn't matter if you say it in person or not.


hello,
ok so theres this guy, i kinda like him, alot of people no and i think he still might. but like 2 ish months ago onbe of my friends asked him if he liked me and he didnt really then but weve like become friends. but idk if he still nows i like him or if he might like me back. what should i do? or should i just leave it alone?

-A friend (link)
Flirt with him. Ask him who he likes. If he dosn't tell you than you gotta shot. Tell him you think you might like him and ask if he feels the same way.


Well heres the deal, i have been goin out with this guy for about a year and a month and i love him to death. its like i dont know what i would do with out him, but there r times when i dont think he feels the same. i sometimes also feel like he lies to me, well i dont feel like it i know he does, about a lot of things...i mean A LOT.
i dont know what to do. i love him to much to let incertainties to break us up but i hate being lied to by him i feel like i have to question everything he tells me
please help me with this im so stuck

A Friend (link)
Well I think the best way to go is to tell him the truth. Just tell him you know he's lying to you and you might have to reconsider your relationship if you can't stop feeling this way.


So I was thinking that I would ask you question. I have a few really good friends that are guy. I think I'm falling for one of them, and I all ready have fallen for the other another. I had moved on from the first one I thinked I liked, but now I thinks I like this other one who has always been a nice friend to me. I am not sure what I do. I don't know how to deal with this. Also, how should I figured out who I really like. They are both so nice. The first one isn't really as good as friends with me now, but the new one I like is. I'm so confused right now, help please. (link)
Well the new one seems like the way to go. If he is a better friend he will probebly be a better boyfriend.


Hello. I need some help. I like this guy who at one point in time, supposivley like me also. Things were going good, until a friend asked if he liked me. He said he didn't know. But first, he asked if I was single. This lead me to believe he may be interested. I'm not so sure any more. We used to be very good friends and would have fun together, and now we are just alright friends. I don't know what to do anymore. I want to know if he likes me. How do I know if he likes me? What should I tell him. I'm trying not to like him, I'm trying to move on, but I just cannot. What should I do? Thanks. (link)
I think you should try and repair your friendship before you try and see if he likes you. Say hi everytime you see him at school. If you have a class with him tyr and talk to him. In the halls if you walk by have a mini conversation. After a while if you still have feelings for him. Ask him out.


Ok im admiting this but i like a Freshmen..
Sounds normal except for im not a Freshmen.
But i THINK that i liek this kid im not competley sure cause i dont really hang out with him alot.
But the one time i did hang out with him i had alot of fun and i cant wait till we hang out again.
Now here is the problem i want to tell him that i like him but im scared to see what he is going to say.. what should i do? (link)
You should wait until the next time you hang out. If you really do like them you should probebly tell him.


ok, there was this guy last year that I sorta liked (meaning I did, but I didnt want to admit it because he had a girlfriend)everyone said he liked me because he was always around me and we didnt spend a day apart. I even thought he liked me..well one day him and his girlfriend broke up. From that day on tho he just started acting mean..like anything I did he would make fun of. and he didnt want to talk anymore or hang out or anything. It was like one day we were best friends, and the next he was someone completely different who I didnt know anymore. Then he found out that I liked him and started being nice again..I even found out that he liked me a little bit..the only problem was, he liked someone else more. and when he started liking them even more, he didnt want to be around me. Now theres this other guy Im friends with and whenever Im around this 'new' guy, the guy I used to like is always trying to get me away from him..hell say things like ''why dont you come hang out with us..'' or ''you should go stand near the COOL people..'' and give the new guy a dirty look. so heres my question:

1)why is the guy I used to like so mean to me when Im alone, (I mean like he ignores me)but when Im with this new guy he gets jealous?
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Hmmmm. He could be like helga from Hey Arnold. He wants tp be mean to make it seem like he dosn't like you so he gets jelous around the new kid or he just dosn't like the new kid.


I like thin guy, i dont think he likes me but my friends seem to be totlay convinced that he does. they say that he says he does when they ask him. i dont tell them to ask him they just do. i dont no if he really just likes me or there just trying to be nice. how do i find out whats really going on. (link)
Be direct and ask him tell him you like him and ask if he likes you. That's the best way. Also tell your friends to mind their own business.


how do you know if someone likes you as just a friend or more then a friend? (link)
Well theres not sure way to know. But if they flirt with you alot thats usually a sign.


i have a problem, where i really like this guy. hes a freshman like me, sweet a good friend, and some what good looking. Well one of my best friends likes him also. And he likes both of us, in a way that he both wants to go out with us. what do i do? (link)
You and your friend should talk. See which one of you likes him more. If you both like him the same. Which is probebly true, than there really isnt anything you can do but let him decide.


what do guys usualy look for in girls? (link)
Looks
Humor
Personality

and for a girlfriend smart


All my friends have boyfriends now.
And it sucks cause i feel out of place. whenever i hang out with them.
sorta liek the "3rd wheel"
Sounds stupid i kno.. and im really happy for my friends.
But i dont want to loose my friends.
And i think i like this kid.. but he is a grade under me.. and im very unsure on what to do about it. So here is when you come in... Help me out. (link)
Well your first problem is that your the 3rd wheel which really isn't that stupid. I understand what your mean. There really isn't a solution to that. If you are the only one without a boyfriend then you will either have to get more friends to hangout with you all or when all your friends and your friends boyfriends hang out maybe you should just not go. Now the boy who is younger than you. If you like him and he's only a year younger then go for it.


Evan, ok so im really stuck because i think that i might like this kid. but im not sure. Cause when im around him i get butterflies in my stomach and i dotn know what to do. I want to tell him how i feel but im scared that he will not liek me back.. what should i do?
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When you flirt with him does he flirt back? Ask him who he likes. If he dosn't tell you give it a shot. Don't ask him out just tell him that you think you kinda like him.


how do you know if i guy really cares or is just trying to get in ur pants.[sorry i couldnt think of a nicer way to put that] (link)
If you keeps trying to get in your pants than that's his goal. If he hasn't tried many times it probebly means he's in it for you. Unless you are somone he will work long term for...




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