Hi there. I'm Emily Elizabeth and I'm 2O. I live in Idaho and work at a Cheese Factory. I've not had this much fun at work in a long time. I want to be either a Criminal Profiler or a Cop before I'm 25. I graduated in 2OO3 ('O3 REPRESENT!) In High School, I ran the Advice Colum and had a blast with it!!
I've been in about every situation imaginable and I'm still alive and kicking. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, it's just a matter of finding it before it's to late. I will answer any question about anything, so don't be afraid to ask.
I'm currently single and I'm OK with that. I don't like being tied down, but I do have 3 Mexican lovers (inside joke) I love all types of music and am a crazy person who will do anything to make you smile, including breaking my shoulder to help my friend get a date. She got a date and I spent Friday night in the ER, that's friendship, right there LOL. I've got brown & pink hair at the moment and 9 piercings (6 in my lobes, 1 cartlidge, right nostril and navel) I drive a 2OO5 Ford Focus (so that means, yes, I've got a kick ass car, but I just signed the next 6 years of my life over to Ford haha)
Have an STUNNiNG day!!
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WHAT IS AN AMBER ALERT (link)
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It's an alert that is put out by the FBI when a child is kidnapped. Like when Elizabeth Smart was taken in Utah or Danielle VanDamm. It was named after a little girl who was kidnapped and killed. I think it's a great idea. It's just to bad that the little kids have to be kidnapped... =(
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Thanks for the advice Emily - I know what you're saying is right but I'm finding it hard to get out of this relationship. By the way, a CCJ in the UK stands for a County Court Judgement. It's basically a court order sent to someone who is in arrears i.e. may owe from a few hundred to a few thousand pounds to a lending company, catalogue etc. etc. Failure to attend or pay what is owed results in a black mark against that persons credit rating so they are unable to obtain credit easily in the future (5 years to be exact!).My boyfriend has a way of making me feel guilty if I leave him and it's wearing me down. I think the best thing for me to do is ignore his phone calls but even that's difficult because I miss not speaking to him. Anyway, I'll keep you posted with any other developments regarding him. (link)
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Hi hun. No problem, I'm glad I was able to help. I know what you mean about getting out of the relationship, like I told you, it took him stealing money from me to realize what a slime he was and even then it still took time. Thanks for telling me what a CCJ was, in America it's a stock trading company LOL. I'm hoping that your name isn't anywhere associated with his credit, since it sounds like his is less than perfect. I can't believe he makes you feel like that, not cool AT ALL!! You need to tell him exactally what you are feeling and thinking and if he is any sort of man at all, he will understand. I certainlly hope so. Do you have any other friends that you can talk to or go out with? That may help you take your mind off of him. For me, I found another guy friend to hang out with, it took away from my lonleyness. I know what you mean about speaking to him. One of the hardest things I did was deleating all of his emails/voice mails and taking down all of his pictures and gifts. Yes, please do keep me informed. If you'd like to chat, I can be found on AIM at: aflscrmommxpxgrl. Take care!!
Emily =)
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I'm very confused about my boyfriend as he is causing chaos in my life and I'm not sure what to do. I've been going out with him for 3 years and the first year was great, although we both had partners when we got together. He has a history of cheating on his girlfriends and treating them badly but I was prepared to give him the benefit of the doubt as he treated me so well. He was sweet, funny, attentive but the more I got to know him I realised that he wasn't the same person I thought I knew. He was also an amphetamine addict who eventually gave up and then was diagnosed with depression.
When I moved in with him last year I found him to be lying constantly, playing mind games, criticising me, being moody, shouting and blaming me for things that go wrong in his life. He has called me names, told me lies that are so obvious yet protests he's telling the truth. I also suspected he was having an affair with a woman around the corner from us which all the evidence pointed to. At the same time he was Mr Charming to everyone else as he manipulated people into thinking that he was a victim, and seemed to have this double personality.
I became so miserable and insecure that I moved out and 55 miles away to live with my parents, which he didn't seem to be bothered about. However within a few days he was ringing me, cying that he couldn't live without me, so I agreed to see him at weekends to help him through his depression. I was seeing him every weekend since May this year but he has only visited me 3 time in all that time, making excuses that he has no money (more lies). Then he hires cars for the weekend occasionally out of spite to prove that he indeed has money but still pretends he can't afford it! When I'm there he acts aloof and doesn't appreciate how much effort and money I spend to see him and doesn't make me feel special or loved. Yet when I'm away and refuse to answer his telephone calls he bombards me with phone calls making false promises of moving to be with me. He goes out with his friends drinking but when I visit he never seems to have any money to do anything and constantly complains about how worse off he is. I feel like I'm going mad as he acts like a different person, depending who he is with at the time. He even lies about when he sees his family and withholds conversation from me about their lives so I never know what he really does from one day to the next except what he wants to tell me.
Recently he sold his house at auction and made £60,000 but has nowhere to live and claims that he sold the house for my benefit!! He says he still can't afford to see me. The only thing he is interested in is me buying a house with him, but I don't even feel like he is my boyfriend who loves me. He has a history of bad credit and a CCJ. Should I trust him or is he using me? Why does he play these mind games with me and expect me to see him with promises he never keeps? Should I just dump him?
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Nicky (link)
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Hi Nicky,
If it was me, I'd run, but I've been in a situation like that and it's not that easy... I had an ex much like yours, he lied, cheated and stole and is now in prison because of it. It took him taking advantage and robbing me to realize what kind of person he really was.
If you suspect he's having an affair, I'd question him & the woman and go from there. If you have even the slightest thought, then I'm sure something is up, intuition is always right. I know what you mean about benifit of the doubt, how it started out so perfect and now it's not. Imagine yourself in 5 years, with him. From the sounds of things now, I can't foresee a good future with him, espically is his credit is bad. I'm not sure what a CCJ is, but if it's associated with credit and is bad, then I'm sure you don't want to be with him. He says that he loves you, but how can he love you and treat you this way?
I think it was a good idea for you to move away from him. For as hard it is and will continue to be, you really should cut your losses with him. Please feel free to send me another message if you even want to talk. Hang in there and good luck.
Emily
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Ok, my dad owns a racetrack about 2 hours away from my house and I always go there every saturday. My brother and a couple of friends also go there and they work on this truck thing. There are 2 guys that work with my brother that I really like and one of them is always flirting with me and says he loves me and stuff but ya I really love them both a lot even though they are 2 and 3 years older than me (there so hot and they're cousins). Well my racetrack closed a few days ago and it opens again in 7 months but I really cant wait that long to see them. One of them who is 14 tried to kiss me on the last night but I didnt kiss him and now I regret it since I will not see him for a long time!!! I keep dreaming about him and I cant wait to see them again I am like so mad its closed...how can I deal? Thanks for your help!!! (link)
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Aww, I bet you do regret it!! It's ok however, because next time you see him, you'll be more prepared than ever and knock him off his socks ;)
Is there anyway that your brother could take you to see them? That's all I could think of, unless you can call them and convince them to come see you.
As far as the dreaming goes, that's totally normal and it means they are on your mind, hopefully you'll be able to see them soon!
Good luck!!
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all of my friends have sex now, im 14! and i dunno i can't ever have sex with anybody if they ever ask me, and i know many people are going to tell me to wait n stuff, but i love my boyfriend and i really want to have sex with him!! but i can't im too afraid, or im just uncomfortable w/ my body, how can i do it??! please gimme sum help! (link)
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14? Wow. I'm not going to preech (because I hate it when I'm preeched to LOL) But I waited until I was almost 20 (like 2 months before my birthday, I'm still 19)
What are you afraid of? It hurting or getting pregeant or what? I'd go to a doctor or Planned Parenthood (they would probably be a better choice based on your age) and get cheaper birth control and most PP's give out free condoms, so you don't have to worry about anyone seeing you buy them.
As far as being uncomfortable with your body, who isn't really? If your boyfriend is truly a nice guy, he won't care how you look =)
Good luck & if you have more questions, let me know.
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hey is the thing i have really pretty face but i am kinda chunky. and when i am drivin around in my truck all these guys look at me and wave etc. and then at school i don't get many looks. like 2day there was this one guy that goes 2 my school that i don't think ever really notices me ( and i kinda like him now) but when i was goin 2 my friends house he saw me and wave and smiled and stared as i went by. the thing is since i kinda like him so i talk 2 him in school cuz idk if he relises i am the same person or not, or just wait for him 2 talk 2 me and how can i get more guys 2 like me for who i am and not my body? thanks alot for any help (link)
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Hi there. If he waves to you, I'd go up and say hi to him and see what happens from there. If he is a truly nice person, your looks will not matter because he will be amazed with your inner beauty, which is all that matters anyways =) Good luck!
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