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Well... I've had a lot of columns here, but it's been quite a while! (: Basically - I'm an eighteen year old girl living with her lovely boyfriend Andrew and our dog, Duke. :] I graduated from Utica High School in 2007 and moved out shortly after. I've been a manager with McDonald's for roughly three months now, and it's okay. :/ I really like helping people though, so if you guys have any questions - guys or girls, I'm pretty sure I'll be able to help you out. I really love to listen, to laugh and to love!

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Okay so I met this boy in December, and he is pretty much hilarious ha.

When I first met him I was talking to my friend Alex and Tommy comes over and says: Alex, is this the girl you always talk about?
Me: Ohh, Alex, what do you say about me?!
Alex: Nothing, he's just like that, ignore him.
Tommy: No, Alex, Come on, tell her!

Anyways we started talking a lot after that. Then we slowly stopped and now we barely do. I think I sort of like him, but I don't know?

Last Saturday, I was talking to him and he said to text him, so I texted him Sunday at like four and said hey and he never answered so I did later and said we need to hang out soon.. and then we were talking for awhile. Well we decided to go to the movies Friday.

On Wednesday I texted him and said hey but he never answered. Thursday I said go to to the movies on Saturday, and he didn't say anything. Yesterday(Friday) I heard he went to the movies, so I felt kind of bad.. So I texted him and said Tommy(: , but he never answered and he texted my friend and asked who is this.. so I was just like wow, but I dunno I'm going to the movies tonight, so I might see him?

So yeah I don't really know what to do? What do you think? Thanks.



PS; I don't plan on talking to him for awhile if I don't see him tonight, because I feel kind of annoying.

He's not interested. If he was, he would have went to that movie with you.




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EDIT - You rate me bad because... what? You said you made plans to go see a movie and he went without you... so if you guys made plans and he just went without you... it doesn't seem like he's to into you. Get over it.

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has a girlfriend
its been a month since we broke up
we were together for 5 months
when he broke up with me i was a wreck.
i was a wreck before i knew he had a girlfriend
now that he does its worse
this is torturing me
i hate this
i cant take my life
my friends arent supportive
i hate where i live
my grades dropped since we broke up
i cant handle school
i know there are worse things happening in the world
but on my own scale this is the bottom.
help me please.
ive been trying to get over him
i had oppurtunities with other guys
i didnt take them because the only guy i can think about is him
i cant believe he moved on so fast.
it was both of our first relationships
both our first kiss.
help me please.
i cant do this.


thanks;
hopelessxx

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This is a sad question. I'm sorry you had to experience something so tragic. First of all, your friends are dick heads if they don't support you when you're obviously so upset. This is a pain that cannot be explained in words, of taken away with words so my advice for you is; cheer up!

Realize that this boy wasn't the only guy in the world, and statistically, you'll have many more before you meet "the one". If he broke up with you because of YOU, then it's a blessing in disguise. You learned that he's way to immature for you and he's inadvertanly giving you a chance to be with someone else [the other guys?]

Take a step in the other direction and give another lucky boy a chance. You will not regret it.


PS: coffee icecream and some good cable will make you happy!


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