Member Since:
March 31, 2005Answers:
19Last Update:
July 28, 2010Visitors:
2865Main Categories:
Love Life
Families
General Sex Questions
View All
about
advice
i feel like theres a part in me that is empty if i dont have a gf, so u got any ideas how i could fill that gap?
be yourself and try to hang out with your friends whenever you have the time. even though you may not want to hang out, or feel lonely..trust me. one day, a girl will come out of the blue.
good things come unexpected. so take advantange of every opportunity you get to try new things, make new friends , go to parties...and trust me. sooner or later you'll find somone.
hope I helped!
My boyfriend ,Joey, broke up with me a few months ago but we still hangout all the time and i guess you could say im still in love with him.He told me he has a few feelings for me still but not like he used to .and he says he sees me like his little sister so he wants to stay in my life.I'm glad he doesn't lie to me and tell me he likes me if he doesn't! When i was very young,about 3-4 years ago i was in love with Justin.We were so young and chaotic and lost our virginity to eachother and from then on ,he meant something to me.For 3 years I was crazy for this kid,and he never asked me out or told me he liked me.We would hangout every once in a while,talk a lot at certain points in our friendships,but basically just keep eachother out of our main lives.Whenever we would hangout,it would always be a lone and usually turn into us having sex,i did it ofcourse because I loved him.He even had several girlfriends throughout all of this,and would cheat on them with me ,ALL the time.So i figured he liked me but didn't know when the right time to be with me was...so i waited.Eventually ,after like 4 years of waiting,i started to get it through my head that he just wants sex and nothing else.I wrote him a letter and told him how i felt and how i never wanted to speak to him ever again because it hurts.Very soon after that letter is when I met Joey and dated him for about 4 months and I was completely over Justin and still was until recently. When me and Joey broke up,justin began calling me and texting me all the time to see what i was doing or if i wanted to hangout.I figured he just wanted sex ,so i just ignored him and gave him little response.I didnt like him ,so i didnt care! One day ,he called me 20 times and i answered finally and he told me he loved me...i figured he was just drunk so i just kinda laughed. A few days later,he told me he really needed to talk to me ,so i went over and he basically confessed his love for me.He said he's loved me this whole time but has been putting on an act because of what his friends think about me.He said he was so jealous of my boyfriend (when i had one) and misses me and whatnot.I told him I'd give him a chance if he showed me he cared.He basically said he wants to continue fighting his feelings for me because he doesn't want anyone to know how he truly feels.I wrote him a letter telling him how i feel and he hasn't said a word to me.It's been 2 days and still nothing.He told me he doesn't want me teling anyone about his confession and he just wanted me to know the truth so i wouldn't think he's a bad guy. What do i do?! I really want things to work out,but he's just scared what people will think!
i feel like you should do what your truly feel is right. although you may not know right now,deep down you must feel something.
if you feel like you want to be with justin, then go for it girl! but a guy who loves you, shouldn't be afraid of what others think. if he really loves you, no one else should matter.
invite him over, or go out for a bite..and talk to him there.
whats the worst that could happen?
but make sure you think about yourself in this too, i know so many girls, including myself, who have gotten hurt. you come first!
hope i helped!
if you need any more advice, i'm always here.
14/f
this is kind-of long, sorry. :/
me and my boyfriend jordan have been going out since may 1, and as of now, we've only held hands and hugged, not kissed or anything. but we went to this school dance on friday, and they played our song [ bless the broken road, rascal flatts (: ], and after they played it, he looked at me and went in to kiss me, and the moment seemed perfect and such, but i turned away. he said it got him confused becaus he thought it was the right moment, but i told him i just felt like it was too soon. so just a few minutes ago he told me he wants to kiss me tomorrow after school, but i don't know what to do, because i don't think we've been going out long enough.
so basically, have we been going out long enough for us to kiss?? and please don't say it's up to me, or that it's whenever it feels right, because i honestly don't know.
so is less than three weeks long enough to kiss?
and we're going to the movies on friday, so i know he'll want to kiss me and maybe even make out.
thanks in advance..
hey i totally get what your saying, im 14/f.and my bf and i have been going out since april 20th.[soo not that longg] soo this past weekend.we went to the movies.he just put his arm around me[which is fine] .and he probably will do that on friday if u go to the movies.
then do w/e u want during the movie[like hold his hand or something]
then after the movies before you go home...hug him and give him a kiss on the cheek.thats the perfect way to say goodnight[if your not readyy to kiss him.] BUT if he stares into your eyes.then just kiss him...and it will leave them thinking all night=]
I have been going out with this girl for like 3 or 4 months and we haven't kissed not even like hug but i dont want to bring it up like... you know so can SOMEONE PLEASE HELP i love her and she loves me but im to afraid of asking her or some thing so help!! plz!
so you have been going OUT ? or just like "kind of With her"? tell me..because i had a problem likke this with a boy though..and i am a girl...so i can help..cause i was the one was shy..so answer quick!
ok so there is this guy on my swim team...he hott in all and i think i like him but im not sure cuz i think i like another guy....but like can anyone give me things that happen when your around some one you like? o ya and i like alyways wanna make him think im pretty when im around him and i guess i just wanna make him think about me..i dont know if i just want him to like me or if i like him...help me out! thnx! :D
well when i am around my "crush" i like i am sooooooooo shy...so..if i were you i wouldn't be shy....but if he still would like you even if you are shy........than that means he is a good guy
Hope i helped
OK, my bestest friend, hes a guy and im a grl, i dunno if i love him...i call him all the time and we talk for hours, and ya, we love eachother, and we both know it, but my question is, how much? I'm not sure if he likes me that way, and I think i do, but i dunno...What should I do?
Why don't you just tell him how you feel, it is the only way you will know, unless one of your friends asks him
Hope i helped...!