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ok there is this guy i like named Chris, and i love him so much, and we have talked a lot and all. but i asked him out and he said "no". but i got so attached to him, that when he turned me down i started to take razors and cut my arm, and i still do. and i want to stop but it helps to controll pain. how do i stop?Note:i am 14/female. i rate 5 to anyone who answers! (link)
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I understand what you are going through, i use to cut myself also and ill tell u right now that it is not the way to go and you will regret it many times later in life. Think of it this way you cut yourself to stop emotional pain but what your not seeing is that you are just making a permanent reminder of that pain right there in your skin where you can always see it. I have 21 scars just on the top of my left arm. (i dont wana count the the rest.... it hurts to remember why i did it) Every time you look at those scars you will remember the pain that you felt before so your not helping yourself your just hurting yourself even more.
A good way to stop the cuting is to find a hobby, mine is cars, when i get in a bad mood or just need a way to take my mind off of something i go outside and work on my car or just drive it until i calm down. Find yourself a hobby and make sure that its somthing you like to do offten even when your in a good mood and do that instead of the cuting.
I hope this helps
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