Okay there are three guys I like and none of it makes sense!
#1 - I've gone out with this guy a few times before and he was my first everything... my first kiss my first guy to hold hands with, all that stuff. It all felt really right. Well he broke up with me a few months ago but of course I still like him... and he's still friends with me and friends with my friends and all that stuff so it's hard not to be around him you know? And sitting by him at the movies and just being "friends" hurts a lot.
#2 - Me and two of my friends (one 8th grader, one 7th grader) like this guy ( and none of us would be that mad if he went out with the other one so its not like it would ruin a friendship over him) ... he's really really cute and sweet and so many good things! Unfortunately he has a girlfriend (who goes to another school) but.. he lied to us and told us he wasn't going out with this girl from another school...which we found out later he really was... does that mean he doesn't really like her?
#3 - I only get to see him sometimes but he's so cool! He's really smart and when I talk to him he acts like he's listening and he makes great conversation! I guess what I'm trying to say is he makes me feel important and listened to (but not necissarily in a way that he likes me). I really like him but I try not to.
I think sometimes I only like #2 and #3 so I can get over #1 but still deep down I like all three of them a LOT.. especially #1... and #1 is the one I probably have the least chance with again =\
alright first off..if u really feel like #1 isnt going to happen again and you have feeling for other guys to..then i would say TRY to just be friends.
#2 i think this guy likes his gf..but he thinks he can get away with having other girls to...i bet he is thinking "well im not with my girlfriend all the time..so why not get attention from someone else." guys are like that at that age..we are only in middle school you cant really expect for all guys to be ready just to like one girl..as said as that is..its just that some cant. so ya i think he likes his girlfriend
#3 if you are trying to get yourself not to like him..and he has a girl friend AND he doesnt know how to stick to one girl...i would try to not like him.
in the end i think you will know who is right..it might take awhile, but thats how love works!
hope i helped!!
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hey court..theres this guy that i hapen to be goin out with and i never see him and then there is this other guy who i use to have a thing with for like a very short while and he ended up totally screwing me over and now he wants me back or sumthing but i am going out with guy #1 but its so hard to just foget about #2 b/c ilike him so much but i am scared to go back to him b/c ithink he will use me again but i know that he would see me alot more then #1, and then there is the third guy..i dont see him as much as #2 but i see him alot more then #1..and the is SOOO freaking sweet and makes me feel so good about myself, but eveyone says hes a badguy but hes not and hes so nice! but i love #1 its just that we never ever see each other and that is like really really hard on me. and then there is kind of this other guy (#4?) and that is like a very long story b/c we are over and have been for an extremely long time..but..we were soo close and i still think about him alot and it makes me fell guilty especially since i am with #1. but i dont know how #4 feels and i cant get myself to foget about him as hard as i try and it really sucks..well i have no clue what to do..b/c i am with #1 but then #2 and #3 want me to break up with 1 for them and then there is 4 who i dont know about like at alll..?? help???
alright..i have a feeling i know who this is..and all i can say is go with your heart..guy # 1 is never there..but he is sweet..BUT HE IS NEVER THERE..isnt being together all the time the point of boyfriend/girlfriend? #2 i would stay away..if he hurt you one then there is a BIG possiblity it will happen again. #3 seems great and i think you can get yourself out of anything before it gets bad..but it is always better to stay away from someone that all your friends think is bad. and last #4 i think yall are just like BEST friends and it was more than that for such a long time that its probably weird now..but from how you talk..i think you know it is over..but you arent sure if you want it to be for his sake. and i think you just being really good friends with him will be enough for him. if i had to pick one i would probably stay with #1 because all these other boys were there when you started going out with him and you still said yes. but im not you..i hope i helped!! if you are who i think you are than IM me and we can talk!!
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hi!
theres this boy that i have a few classes with at skool and he gets on my nerves a lot... but when i think about it i really care about him but i dont no if i like him as just a friend or more.... please help me!!
i know the feeling! well maybe he gets on your nerves because you like him..i know when i like someone..than i try to tell myself i dont..by saying they get on my nerves!! maybe you should talk to them for like a week..and see if u still feel like they get on your nerves..and if they do, then maybe yall should to be friends..and if you feel like you are starting to care for them more..than maybe its more than that!! i hope i helped!!
love-Court
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