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there this guy who really likes me. he follows me home and offers me rides home and gives me gifts for no reason. he ask me out and i said no. now he likes a girl who disses him. so now he is even worse. what should i do? (link)
At least you've got him off your shoulders. It's not your responsibility to worry about him, it doesn't even sound like your friends. It's his life; let him live it how he wants.


in 2 weeks i am going to visit my friend on the east coast and i haven't seen him for 9 years. i want him to think i look pretty good but i have really low self confidence and that makes me feel ugly even tho i kno im not. so is there anyway i can kinda build self esteem by the end of the month? i just want to feel confident. (link)
I'm the same way, in fact I've got a similar situation...And what really helps me is 2 pamper myself and make my hair look nice and wear makeup and do stuff I'm really good at. I don't know if it would work for you, everyone's different, but it's worth a shot.


My bf has this friend brit and i am almost positive she likes him and like he asked me would you be mad if i saw a girl in a swimsuit and she was biking and i was to and i went up to talk to her? and i said umm no..? and he said o cuz i saw brit. and another time he went to her house and he is like brit wants us to go over to her house 8 or 9 in the morning but he didnt go so thats good. idk she is just prettier then me and skinnier then me .. thats when we sorta got in a bad situation i told him i thought i didnt meet up to his standards and he said in otherwards you think you arent good enough for me? and i said yeah and he said well if anything your to good for me but that was awhile ago .. so what should i do or even tell him?! we communicate just fine.. we see eachother alot... so im guess im not completely worried about it all but brit.. thats what im worried about..
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You should confront him, no question about it.


I like this guy alot, and he's my friends neighbor there no problem. we both flirtall the time (anthony and me). its just that at sometimes he'll go i don like you what are you doen here but he'll say it sarcasticly. and then at other times he'llplay footsie with me. i like him alot. but idk wheter should i confront him, or just keep things the way they are. i see him alot during the summer so that wouldnt b a problem.and hes a grade aahead of me idk if that might be the problemt too. please help (link)
I wouln't worry too much about the whole switching between bein sarcastic and playin footsies thing--TONS of guys do that and usually it's when they like a girl. If you're gonna confront him about something, confront him about going out with you.




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