Hey I'm Deanna and I decided to do this because i figure ill give advice one way or another and this is a way to reach more people. feel free to ask me anything, and if you need to talk let me know.
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Gender: Female
Location: Boston
Occupation: Karate Teacher
Age: 16
AIM: deathbyoatmeal1
Member Since: March 15, 2005
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Well.. I'm 16/f. A while ago my boyfriend and I broke up and we fought a LOT afterwards. We were always fighting. So then we finally started becoming friends again and I started to like him again. Then he went out with my best friend, Cara. So now I don't know what to do. I feel really awkward when I'm with them. He really loves her.. but still. (link)
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Hey. It sounds like what you should do for now is try to be supportive of your ex because if he really does love her, then maybe its not meant to be with you and him... at least not for now. In high school people abuse the hell out of the word love so you never know if he means it. considering its your best friend and your ex i'd say try not to make waves. Maybe in the future they will break up.... and you will be his shoulder to cry on. But if not... dont try to break them up because you'll lose the friendships
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if you have read the previous post, you'd know how pathethic my love life is (20m never had gf). Anyway, where can i meet a nice girl? And how do i get to know her?
(any nice girl out there?) (link)
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You may want to stop focusing on the looking and more on letting her find you. The most beautiful things in life are serindipity. Plus when you finally find her, you dont want to be too wrapped up in looking around to realize it. she could be right under your nose. live your life as best you can and love will work itself in.
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i have a boyfriend who i love so much!! but then i met another guy and i think i'm starting to like him..i think my boyfriend is getting tired of me now and he doesn't call me anymore but the new guy does..what do i do??? (link)
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I think you need to talk to your boyfriend and let him know whats going on. Tell him how you feel about him and why you think you're losing him. If you're open with him he may start to open up to you more and perhaps you can get to the root of the problem. Dont start anything with the new guy until you talk to your boyfriend because your love interest may just be your excuse for attention from someone you feel cares about you.
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