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Im having trouble knowing weather to ask this girl out i really like (a lot). Im 14 years old and in 8th grade and theres this girl a year younger than me in the 7th grade. Im not like the nerdy unsociable kind of guy. I have a lot of friends and i get along with almost everyone. My friend told this girl i like her (i didnt want him too) and i kind of get the impression shes not intrested. i was planning on telling her i like her and asking her out but now i feel funny after he already said something. Shes considered a 'preppy' girl and my friend said she wont go for me cause im to 'skater'. The truth is i normally go for preppy girls and i like them more. Even though i like skating and into punk and shit, i dont know if i should take my friends advice and change my image then ask her or completly ignore asking her out all together. Its a hard decision cause i like her a lot.

I don't think that you should have to change your image just for her, becacuse your friend said that she didn't like skater guys. I think that you should ask her out anyway and if she says "no" then don't go change your look becuase of it, so she will like you. Maybe you can talk with her and become friends and then she might like you for you not because you are all skater.


hope it helped.

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ok well school atarted back up on monday, and my boyfriend from last year goes there, and we never really broke up! so he started small talk and i'd talk to him back, I just feel kinda weird around him now! and he started ignoring me today and yesterday, and I tried to talk to him but he keeps no walking, and i smiled at him and he just looked away! i I really really like him, and I know he likes me to! so please please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well I think that you should call him and talk to him about this and ask him whats going on with your relationship. I think that you should be honest with him and tell him your feelings and if he doesnt care then I think that you should try to get over him even thought it will be hard he isnt worth it if he isnt going to care a thing about you. Hope it helped


Cally

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so im gonna spend the night at my friends house tomorow and her older brotehr is gonna b there and i really like him! but i dont wanna flirt too much with him cuz i kno she will get mad! but how do i come off sexy to him but not too like desprate and obvious?

NO because that is your friend and your going to go to see her. Maybe another time.

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Hey im going into the 8th grade and i like this kid and i never met him and i heard that he liked me before but i dont know him and im scared of talking to him i liked him since last year but the thing is hes popular and im not a geek or a popular person im just a normal person u know and i dont know what to do should i just leave it alone and go find someone i know? please help!!

Well maybe you should talk to some of your friends that know him. Or you should go out with him to try to find out about him. Then maybe you'll become closer.


hope it helped. Sorry its soo short!! :)


Cally:)

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