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I am a teenage guy full of raging hormones. I will give honest opinions involving some sick humor and brutal honesty, so don't ask a question if you're self conscious.
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Location: Dallas
Age: 15
Member Since: December 23, 2005
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Ok, first of all my girlfriend and I are both sophomores in High School. We've been together for just over two months but we've known each other for almost four years and everything is going okay. But i'm in the middle of a depression right now and its making me reconsider a lot of things. For your information we don't have a typical on-off high school sort of romance. See we've determined that we are soulmates and intend to marry when we can (we even made these cheap little pretend rings to wear until then); in short, we're very serious for teenage romance. My question centers around the speed of the relationship. We've basically done everything aside from sex and being a guy, I feel I should try to get it to that point, you know? But for some reason all I really want to do is slow down. I feel if I tell her this, she will think I'm not ready for the kind of relationship she wants. And if she does, she might want to find someone else. My question is should this relationship take a step back or stay where it is now? (link)
Remember, sex isn't required for a loving relationship. If you get married and still don't want to have sex for a long time, something may be wrong. Other than that, abstinence is perfectly fine. If she cannot accept your decision to not have sex and to slow down, then she probably wants the cock, not the guy.


So a few weeks ago i just got dumped, and i really like this guy a lot still. I always ask himif he likes me and sometimes he says kinda and sometimes he says no. He acts really cute to me and stuff when no one else is around, or he will tell me he likes me but then the next day he will say he doesnt then 5minutes later he will tell me that he loves me. I like this guy so much and i would do anything to get him back.
Does he like me? Any ideas to win him back? (link)
He probably likes you. He is probably trying to deny it since you're his ex, and it'd seem pathetic to come back to you with his tail hanging between his legs. I would sit him down and ask plain and simply how he feels about you. Peer pressure may be another factor in his behavior. Hope that helps.




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