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One of my really good guy friends came to visit me this weekend. We flirt a lot in general and we love to cuddle but that's just how we were. Well this time we were cuddling and we ended up kissing and then we went all the way and had sex. We ended up falling asleep together and doing some stuff in the morning and when he left we kissed each other goodbye, but now I don't really know what's going to happen. He and I have talked before in general (not specifically about us) and he's not very good at long distance relationships because of jealousy issues and I'm not really either. We still don't even know if we like each other that way or not...I mean, we're basically best friends and I have such strong feelings for him, but I didn't think either of us were sexually attracted/romantically attracted to the other person when I guess we both might be. He says just "give it time" and we'll come up with an answer, but I keep thinking about it! It's constantly on my mind. What should I do? Was it a mistake? Are we going to have problems? (link)
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id just go with his advice. just go with the flow itll work out. if you are happy then it wasnt a mistake. you might have problems but if you really like each other its worth a try.
talk to him and see what he thinks and wants to do about it all.
good luck
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Soes anyone have any good talking to girls about anything as im really nervous talking to them any help would be help full. (link)
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well for starters dont bore them.my boyfriend still does that by talking about stuff that he knows i dont understand.
Also if you know they dont understnad stuff dont try to make them understand...my boyfriend talks about cars and stuff i dntget it.
Just be cool, talk about stuff you like, without being confusing.
Ask about them and what they like and what they enjoy. Be casual, dont worry to much about it.
good luck
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Things are so awkward! we broke up because he lied, & because i didnt want to be in a serous relationship with somone im not sure i can trust. it was two days ago...& i didnt see him yesterday but today i saw him...& its so wierd. we dont even say anything to eachother. i said hi to him...he said hi back...
but its like... how long is it going to be until we can just be casual aquaintences again? i accidentally looked at him in class today (i have to turn around to see the clock) & he looked at me so wierdly... idk what to do! i just want us to be friends (link)
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okay i know exactly how you feel!! itsz really hard i broke up with mine over the summer and it was so akwerid wor a while.
if you really wanna be friends with him again it will take some time. Just have a little casual conversation once in a while and you will start talking and things will start tot get normal aain.
things may never be completely normal again though if he gets another girlfriend and you like him even a little you will be a little jealous.
Just try to stay calm around him and try to have a casual conversation once in a while. Make these conversations happen more often as time goes by.
good luck!!
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So here's the situation I have been friends with this guy for a few months now and ever since we first met it was clear we both like each other and like we kissed before and tried dating but it just didn't really work out. Now we're just friends and its working really well except there's still like tension between us because its clear we still like each other. I was thinking we could be like friends with benefits and stay just friends but then like if we get the urge to kiss each other or fool around thats fine and theres no commitments and no expectations which was the problem before. I don't really know if this will work out though and I'm afraid of telling him my idea and how he might react to it.... (link)
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you just got to go slow at it. if you kiss or fool around thats fine. just go with the flow, if one thing leads oto another then it happens. It may work out this time it may not but you have to take the chance. You have to tell him though and make sure he's okay with it. tell him you still wanna be friends no matter what he says.
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what in the world do i get my boyfriend for christmas? we've been dating 1 year and 2 months
17/f (link)
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something that he'll like and use. if he wears jewlery you can get him a chain necklace or earing, but like it depends on how much your willing to spend on him. Get him something he likes, a certain type of cloths he really likes, me for example i love hoodies. You could get him his fav. calogne to or just simply ask what he wants for christmas.
good luck!!
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my boyfriend and i fooled around for the first time back in april. now i havent been on my period since. he never "came" the whole night. but he did ATTEMPT to go in me twice, both barely went in cause it hurt to much. anyway.. i've been stressing out so much over maybe being pregnant. i havent been on my period since.. i've ALWAYS been irregular. my period never comes on time. i wanna see a doctor, to get this sorted out, but i dunno how to tell my mom about it. i highly doubt im pregnant.. i mean could i be just from that?
any ideas on what to do??
theres been no weight gain, im not craving food, i never get sick or anything, im not tired.. i feel as normal as always, but i just keep having that thought.. and i try not to stress out, but i do anyway.. how long can stress delay your period for?
thanks so much. (link)
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well you need to talk to your mom bout it first of all, i know that may be really hard to do but you have to. if you think its possible u may be pregnate you gotta get to a doctor so you can get healthy and know all the info and stuff.
and yes it is possible for you to get pregnat, its problably not likeley, but if he didnt have a condom on you could be. and there are the pre-ejaclulatory fluids that are released.
just try talking to your mom about it okay.
its hard but you've gotta do it.
hope it all works out
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Ok this guy I think might be playing had to get. The thing is, is that he told me he liked me and now he is just teasing me and being stupid. I kinda like him. Should I forget it? Or what should I do or say? (link)
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well guys do that a lot. they'll say they like you but then they act all weird, been there lol. but yeah id say to just try to get to know him better, see if he maybe wants to hang out after school or on the weekend sometime just to get to know him more and see whats hes like when its just you and him. if you still like him after that then go for it, if you dont then forget it.
hope i helped and good luck
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SO there's this guy whos my really good friend but we're not BEST friends so to speak. I like him ALOT! like alot alot. but i have no idea how to tell him without coming on too strong or sounding like a stalker you know?
please help.
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just ask him to hang out sometime and sit him down and tell him how you feel, tell him that you like him and see how he responds to it
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soo, i heard that it can be sexy to your boyfriend when you wear his clothes.. like a tshirt or something. but how do i actually get them you know? i don't live with him and i don't spend the night or anything. anyway, if anyone has advice i'd be happy to have some, thanx :) (link)
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just ask him for a hoodie when your over say your cold and just forget to give it back. or tell him you dont like the pants your wearing and get a pair of his shorts and dont give them back.
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oKAY FOR THE PAST COUPLE MOUTHS i HAVE NO CLUE IF MY BEST GUY FRIEND (U KNOW WHO) IS JUST MY FRIEND OR I HAVE BEEN IN DENIAL ABOUT LIKING HIM EVER SINCE LAST YEAR. i MEAN HE'S SO SWEET TO ME SOMETIMES EVEN THOUGH WE ALWAYS TEASE EACH OTHER AND HE'S PROBABLY MORE OF A FRIEND TO ME THEN A LOT OF THE GIRLS IN MY CLASS
(BESIDES U) WHAT SHOULD I DO?
~~~~~~~~U KNOW WHO! JM~~~~~~~~~~ (link)
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well if you think you really like him id go for it. you should just like see if he wants to hang out some time and just see how it goes and if you still really like him.
good luck
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I want to get my bf something really sweet and cute, but something that he'll actually use alot, and think of me when ever i use it. We've been dating for almost a year now so i want to get him something special. But he's kinda tight on money right now so i want to get him something pretty cheap because i dont want him to feel like he should have gotten me something expencive. So for sure under $40. And i have absolutely no idea what to get him :( HELP (link)
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id agree get him his fav. calonge or somethin like that. im probly gonna get my bf an earing cus he wears one so if yours does you can get him one, or a nice silver chain necklace, with or without a charm is fine but its something he can wear a lot and to school and its easy to think of you wen he wears it. good luck
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