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Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: school
Age: 16
AIM: Blueee16
Member Since: December 22, 2009
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18/m. You've probabaly heard this story before, but oh well.

I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks before christmas.We had been going out for 6months prior. I thought that the relationship was really not working out. She thought the same but she didnt want to break up. After breaking up, she was rather depressed, you could see it in her face, and was crying a few days after.

On christmas eve, we met up to exchange presents which we bought before breaking up, and had breakup sex (probabaly not a good idea now that i think about it).

Before we started going out, she liked this other guy, jack. So the other day, i found out (on facebook) that she's going out with jack. Im sort of feeling the whole "now that you cant have her, you want her". Im not even sure that i want her, i guess im just confused that she's going out with him, just 2months after we broke up. Im not really sure what i think...abit of jealousy i think.

So whats your opinion. Am i right for being jealous, or feeling this? obviousely i cant do anything about it. Hope you can help, and sorry if its long. Thanks in advance.
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this is exacley what happend with me and my ex boyfriend. It really is, Just not the break up sex part,we were going to. But after i started dateing more guys he got really upset and got mad for no reason. In my eyes,I don't think you have any right to be mad or anything.You broke up with her,you hurt her. Like you can't change that in any way. And knowing her she will go back to her cause i know i would have in the stage of the break up. You just just start dateing and move on. This is how you will move on faster. and if you guys meet up sometime in the future than you know your meant to be.


Okay so I just got back together with my ex-boyfriend yesterday. Yesterday for some reason I didn't feel right and I cut myself. I haven't cut myself for about a year and for some reason yesterday I did. I tried to tell him on the phone but I couldn't. I don't know what to say or do...anyone have advice on how to tell him? (link)
Just tell him.You will feel alot better about your self if you tell him.Then tell him why
He won't get mad if you tell him the truth you cant hide it




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