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Alright...I have a friend who i am very close with .. and means the world to me . ( he is a guy ) and then i have another friend who i don`t know if i condsider her a " best friend " .. and now that everything is different between us because of something that happened bewteen me and that girl .. we don`t rly talk as much as we did... and now i hear that my good ( boy ) friend is falling for the .. girl .. and it isn`t makin me and my friends that happy..we just don`t like it..what should we do ? -- thanks
well...lets see...wat should you do...well i think you should talk to the gurl and the boy about it both and tell them everything that on yurs and yur friends minds...then if they r yur true friends they will understand and they wont get mad at yu...and does this gurl like the guy back? and y isent it making yu happy since the gurl is still yur friend?? and y dont you like it?? does it bother you because have yu ever thought mabye yu and yur friends like him for more than just a good friend??...and if yu do mabye yu should tell her that yu and yur friends like him...this is a tricky one..but the best thing i can say is talk to them about it..but dont get mad at them...and if you and yur friends like him and that gurl also does too...then the worst thing would be to get mad at her...so all im saying is just talk to them bout it..and just be calm! dont get upset or mad or anything...so good luck with all of this and i hope that you dont loose your 2 good friends over this..cause that would be the worst thing that can happen!:)
well i like my boyfriend alot , i really do and he says he loves me, and i say it back but when i say it i feel really bad because i no its not true. And i get all the magic when im with him and kiss him, its just im so inlove with my old boyfriend but i do not want him back i just want to be friend and we are. i dont no what to do should i stay with my boy friend what should i tell him about this love thing. I no he love me like really he does it just i dont no if i LOVE yet, because i still have other feelings. what should i do?
aww...well it depends who yu have stronger feelings for...if you have stronger feelings for your boyfriend..then stay with him..but just tell him that yu just dont love him yet and ask him to just slow things down a bit..cause it makes you a little uncomfortable..and if he really luv`s you like he says he does...he will accept that! but if you have stronger feelings for your ex..then mabye you just need to tell your boyfriend that now is not the right time to keep going out...mabye you should just be single..and mabye after a while you will loose feelings for your ex..and yu will realize your feelings for your boyfriend! so just follow your heart..no matter wat it tells yu! and it helps if you talk to peopel about it...and if there is no one im always here and yu can im me!
ok when im with my friends i always say tha tlike the jocks & stuff r hot.. which they r and alot of the times ill like them.. but when it comes to actually likin sumone and being in relationships i choose the guys that my friends think r not hot.. like i go for personality not looks... a good body is just a plus.. and my friends r always like y r u with him, hes ugly, u could do so much better., but i dont want to do better i like the guys that im with... how can i make my friends see that id rather have a guy with a soso body & a great personality than a guy with a great body but cant even make me laugh...???
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just tell your friends that you like normal people and look`s dont matter to you...and they should totally understand..and when they say stuff liek " y r yu with him" or " hes so ugly you could do so much better" tell them that you wanna be with him cause hes got an awesome personality and then tell him i dont wanna do better i want him...they shouldn`t have a problem with it...and if they do mabye they arent your true friends!? so just talk to them about it..im sure they will understand!
ok well me and my bf say we love each other and have been 2gether for a while... but he told me he still has feelings for his x *loves her still* but i no tht he loves me and i no tht they were 2gether for a long tym but she treated him so badly and it hurts me 2 no tht and so i dont no y he loves her but i no being 2gether tht long tht he is still gonna have feelngs for her... so can someone help me out w/ some suggestions on how 2 talk 2 him about this, and should i be jealous tht he still has feelings for her?
no, you should not be jealous..unless he wants to get back with her. But you just have to talk to him about it, just tell him you feel really strange about all of this and you just need to be re-assured that hes the one you want to be with and he loves you...and its normal for people to have feelings for their x`es..especially if they were going out for a long time..but after a while if he still really luv`s her and he always talk bout her...then you need to figure out who he luv`s more...so just talk to him and let out all your feelings, cause if he really loves you he will repsect you for talking to him about it and for telling him everything thats on your mind!
If you fell in love (like REALLY fell head over heals in love) and you know it will never ever EVER work out(like the man might as well be dead its so never ever going to happen), is it normal to feel like you'll never love anyone that way again? He didn't break up with me cuz we weren't ever really together, but my heart is broken. I'm not angry with him or anything either. Its just that I know in my heart that i will never feel this way about anyone ever again, just is it normal?
yes...it is totally normal! and after a while you probably will get over it..like they say time heals everything...so you just gotta wait and try to get ova him...`nd if you cant..then mabye you 2 are meant to be..but you just werent at that certain time! all you have to do is keep your head up high and always look on the bright side! one daii your gonna find a guy who is so much better compared to the last guy. so dont worry..its totally normal to be heartbroken and to feel like that, but dont let it ruin your life. Just always think positivly about all of this..mabye it has just made you a billion times stronger..so just keep your head up high hun! and another thing that will make this a little easier is to talk to people you trust..and if there is no one you can always talk to me! just i/m me and ill be here for ya!