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well i thought i was over my ex but i went on his myspace after i told myself i wouldnt look at it and he likes this girl but now shes his number one. i knew they were friends and that she probably liked him too but its kind of annoying me now.we havent spoken in weeks and im in the process of getting over the relationship. well i dont think i like him still but theres just all these memories because he was my first boyfriends ever. most of all im mad at myself for looking at his myspace because i know it only hurts me to go on it and i shouldnt have. does anyone know how i should deal with this?
thanks

Well your first love is always the hardest to get over. There is nothing i can tell you that will make it easy for you except just try have fun with your friends and i am sure they all love and support you, they might take your mind off of him and make it a little easier. Also try to delete him off of your myspace this will stop the temptations of looking at it. Hope i helped Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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so me and my bf have been going out since the begining of summer and i dont like him anymore how do i tell him that??

Just be honest with him! You cant pretend to like him as it is not fair on him. So tell him the truth but break it to him easy as it will be a hard thing to hear. Good luck

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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f/sophomore

Hi.
So theres this guy in my health adn gym classes and he's new this year. He's really cute and i have a crush on him, but I've never even talked to him. I'm kind of shy. I'm not the type of person to talk first, but I want to be. How can I start a conversation with him? Thank you!

Well it is all about confidence! If you really cant think of anything to say just ask him something like Can i borrow a pen and then just start talkin about something like what kind of music he is into or what sort of films he likes and who knows a relationship could form. good luck! Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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HELP!!!!
mmy best friend (let's call her Jammie) well Jamie Tells me that my best guy friend (let's call him will) has been totally and madly in love with me since sixth grade. I thought that she was just messin with me, but then Will tells me that what she said is actually true! I don't want to turn him down because we have such a good friendship, and honestly i am not sure that i don't like him. But i do know that i like Will's best friend george!!!!! I am soooooooo confused!!!!!!!!
what should i do?
what should i tell will??!!!!!
what should i do about George??!!!!!!!!
how do i tell Will that i turned him down because i like his BEST friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well if you really are not sure you like him it is not a good idea to go out with Will, because you wont be happy and he'll get hurt and it will ruin your friendship. Just tell him you dont feel that way about him but you love him so much as a friend. If he is your close friend he will understand!

I really would wait till Will is over you to go for his best friend as this will more than likely hurt him more. Good luck! Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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So there's this guy I used to like, alot- and I took him to my homcoming because he goes to a opposite school,& after all that I realized I really didn't like him to much, but I kissed him and the next day he asked me out, so I said yes,& now we've been dating for 3 days& i've already lost intrest in him! /: should I break up with him and if so how should I do it.

Well if you are really not interested in him then you should just break up as it is not fair on him as he is gonna end up geting hurt.

When you tell him you should be totally honest with him and dont be too harsh just tell him how you really feel and hopefully he will respect that and you will remain friends. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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I like this girl and she knows but all my friends think she is to tall for me cause im 5 ft and shes like 5ft 7 i dnt know what to do she likes me too should i ask her out.

dont listen to them, Who cares what anyone else thinks! Height does not matter at all, it is the person that counts. So if height does not bother her and it does not bother you, then just go for it! Your friends will eventually stop teasing and see that you really like each other. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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I really don't know what to do. I just feel like dying. I let guys touch me and kiss me and they almost have sex with me. I feel horrible. i'm a whore! I don't really know what to do. Every guy is calling me a whore behind my back. I just want them to have respect for me. Which I know I can't get back. All I wanted was a boyfriend. I have a lot of fun when they're touching me and fingering me. I'm such a whore. I just don't know how I can change things. Any advice?

Well you are not a whore you just have a very active sex life and it would be different if it was a boy who was in your position he would be praised!

But if they are calling you a whore it is just because they can and it makes them look better. But you really need to respect yourself more and maybe you will get more respectfrom other people. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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How do you flirt? Like what do you say or do?

Well flirting is very easy if you are confident when talking to boys.

One of the best flirting technique is to tease him a little but dont tease him about anything to personal because he might start to get annoyed. also just try to make jokes with him and have fun, you neva know he might flirt back! hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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I think I am falling for this guy, i realllly like him. But he has a girlfriend. He just started going to my school today, so I get to see him very often now.
I dont know where to start.
He has a girlfriend, but I am falling so hard for him.
He is suppppppppper sweet, he's attractive, i love his personality. He's like perfect.
idk what to do.
help

Well as he has a girlfriend you should just stay friends as it wont be fair on her if you try to get him while they are still together. And remember if he cheats on her and you go along with it he will probably think it is ok to cheat on you too and he may make a habit of it.

When that relationship ends flirt with him to get his attention and maybe a relationship may form between you two. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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hey there :)
well, i'm in a long distance relationship right now and i'm not gunna lie - it's pretty hard.
i'm fourteen and he's seventeen. i'm sending him a little box thing. i already put a letter, a cd, and a picture inside of it. any ideas on what else would be cute to give him? i'd GREATLY appreciate it.

also, what are some cute names to call guys?

thank you so much! :)

Well i know how it feels to be in a long distance relationship i was textin my bf for 2 years till we met and i only see him on weekends.

well i am sure he will love anything you give to him as it will be from someone he loves. You could buy a love poem to put in it, or if you could you could write one yourself i am sure he would love that.

well here is a website with lots of cute nicknames you could give him
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/nicknames.asp
Hope i helped

love Nikki-Marie xxx

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give me as much kissing advice as possible!

Well everyone can kiss it just comes natural. If you are more confident the better you will be at kissing as you wont hold back and be shy you will just go for it and boys like that. But if you have never kissed before let him kiss you and then you just copy what he is doing you will get the hang of it! But dont use tongue unless he does it first because not all boys like it.
Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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16/F. I've been friends with this guy for a year. Last year, we werent really that close. But we got closer over the summer. In the beginning of the year, he would go to my lunch just to talk to me and be with me. Everyone thought he liked me. I'm starting to like him a lot. I text him and he asked me to hang out this weekend. We ended up seeing a movie but nothing happened. I don't know what to think really. Does he like me or not? I'm sick of everyone saying it, I want him too. But here's the thing... I dont know if I should ask him or if i even want to because first, if he doesnt then it's going to be awkward. And what we have right now is great but i dont want to jeopardize it, but i definitely would like more. I dont have classes with them though, and I see him at lunch because now he comes to my table to talk to me, but he made friends with most of my friends so he doesnt talk to me ALL the time anymore. So yeah, I dont know. What should I do?

Well if he went out of his way just to talk to you at dinner he must like you. And if everyone says it they cant all be wrong. But you have to believe it yourself to have the confidence to ask him.

If he likes you the same way he will tell you and if he just likes you as a friend he will take it as a compliment. And at least you will know how he feels. =]

But if you really really cant bring yourself to ask him just try flirting with him a little bit and see if he flirts back. And trust me you will know if he is flirting with you they make it so obvious lol. Hope i helped =]

Love Nikki-Marie

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