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ok i like this boy and i know he doesnt like me. but i havent asked him but i just know he doesnt. he is my friend and im afraid that if i tell him he wont like me and it will be weird to be around him as a friend. what should i do? (link)
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well you need to talk him aynway. talk to him and make unawkward. when you tell him. then maybe he likes you too. talk to him.
come back soon.
erin
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Ohkay.. so i like this guy and idk if he likes me back with out asking him out?And how do i tell if he is into our relationship as friends or he wants to be more than friends.. Oh.. and what do i do if in jelous of my BFFL becuase she has a really good relationship that i want..But i dont like her b/f. i HAVE ABSOLUTLY NO IDEA WHAT to do!:(
I need love help :( (link)
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well to find out if he is in to you or not, you dont have to ask him out or anything like that right away. Maybe you could have one of your friends ask him if he likes you more than a friend. and if he does liek you more than a friend.. THEN you could ask him out. and to tell if he is into your relationship.. you could ask him what he is doing over the weekend, and see if maybe he wants to hang out or go to the movies with just the two of you.. or you could have a double date with one of your friends. there are many possiblities. talk to him on the phone, and stuff like that. if he doesnt want to do anything with you, then you should knwo that he is not into the relatinship.. but if he is willing to spend as much time with you as possible.. then you should know that he IS into the relationship. well maybe if you and this boys relationship work out, find ways to improve it soo you dont have to be jealous of your BFFL relationship. do things that they do. you dont have to liek her boyfired to have a good relationship like they have.
well thank you.
hope is works out.
erin
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i love this girl named eeeee beeeee.
when she skates she laughs at me when i fall on my butt, saving people from falling in gum. she also takes emo pictures on my camera
what do i do if shes in love with a stripper?
AHH. help :] (link)
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WOW. THIS GIRL SOUNDS LIKE AN AWESOMELY AWESOME PERSON!!! lol.. WELL YEAH.. I THINK HER EMO PICTURES ARE HOTT!!!! i think that you should just except the fact that shes a stripper and go for it!!
lol
hope it works for you!!
lol erinnnnn =D
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so there is this boy but i dont kno if i truley like him as much as i used to like him how do i resolve this?? (link)
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well do you feel nervous around him, when ever he looks at you ddo feel a tingle or a warm feeling on the inside? well if you do, then you truly like him, but if you dont really feel or think abotu him as much anymore, then maybe you are starting to get over him.
come back if y ou need more advice.
thanks:]
erin.
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Me and my Boy friend just broke up after 2 years i and really sad and need to help to act like myself again b/c i'm just sad and quite.Everyone in the school knows and its annoying cause everone in the school is asking how and what happened and it just makes me feel worse because i don't want to think about. so i'm asking how do i tell people i don't want to talk about it in the nicest way and and how to get to myself. thanks! (link)
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ok. Well if someone asks you how and what happened, just say "I would rather not talk about it anymore." in a nice calm way. After datign someone for a long time and then breaking up with them can be really hard to deal with. Try not to think abotu the matter as much, and think positive. Do other things to get him off your mind. Hang out with your friends, do things with your family. Try not to think abotu him as much.
come back if y ou need more hhelp.
hope i helped you.
erinnn :D
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ok, well i really like one of my BF4L's boyfriend and don't know how to tell her and he's told me some stuff that suggests he doesn't like her that much and that he just feels bad for her and i really wanna tell her so she doesn't get hurt ; but then what if she gets mad at me and think i wanna try and break them up b/c i like him when the truth is i do like him but i'm trying to help her from getting her heart broken... (link)
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well i just happened to be in that situation VERY recently, but the other way around. i was the one with the bf that my BFF likes.. and she is going out with him right now. but she never told me she liked him. and now i am sorta mad that she never told me that she likes him, and now they are going out. so i think the best thing to do is to tell her, maybe if she is talking abotu him around you one day just say yeah, he likable, and i sorta like him. b/c i am sorta mad she didnt tell me that she likes him, and she just went out with him, and me not even knowing that she even likes him, and she didnt even tell me she was going out with him, OR ask me.
soo i think you should tell her in a casual way.
you could even write her a note and put it in her locker, you dont even have to sign your name. the thing is you know you got it out of your system.
well come back if you need more advice !!
erin
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me and my boyfriend are in love and we like the way that we are..
but this girl (kinda my friend) is always pushing me to do other things and telling me that we need to kiss and we need to do that.. but its my relationship not hers..
what do i tell her to make her stop????
Sincerly... Please tell me what i say to her..
Thanks alot :] (link)
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Of course tell her you dont think the time is right. b.c YOU will know when the perfect time to kiss him is. not her! she doesnt control you. and dont let her!! and tell her that you would like to do something with your bf and that you will make time for her later or something.
all you have to say to her is. No not yet, because i will know when the time is right, and maybe it is soon, or maybe its later, you will just have to wait.
thats it.. its ssimple.
erin :] come back if you need some more advice!
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ok im 13 and theres this kid i REALLY like and i dont know if he likes me back....ive never had a bf so i dont really know if i should ask him out or not..i really need help erin!!! (link)
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well have a friend ask him if he likes you. and you only got one shot.. b.c if he does liek you then that could change any moment of the day and he could fall for someone else!!!
go ahead ask him out!!
and if you guys do go out // call him everyday if posible, and talk to him at school // and ask if he wants to do something after school or during the weekend. but you dont want to be liek a stalker. so do call him 3 times a day askign the same questions // call him 1 time.. and if you forgot to ask him something call him again and tell him you forgot. but dont act shy around him. b.c if you do. then he might be shy and think that you dont like him! soo be outgoing and show your true self!!
erin :D
come back for help if you need it!!
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ok so i was gonna ask out this girl cuz i liked her and i thought she liked me cuz i danced w/her at our dance. so i was goin up but then heard she was goin out w/another guy. what do i do, just wait it out or wat? i am 14 in alaska (link)
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well you HEARD that she was going out with another guy, but is that true. if it isnt true then ask her out.. but i mean if it is, then you might wanna wait till they break up.. kayy
well come back if you need more advice or somethinggg....
hope i helpedd.. :]
erinnn
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okay so there is this guy at my school and he always flirts with these other girls and he says that i am like his sister . but i realllly reallly like him but he says he will never go out w. me because we are to much like family. erin what should i do?? (link)
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wow. ive gone throught that ALOT in my school. but do you want to make him happy??? if you do, maybe that will make him happier nowing that you are supportive of not going out with him..
the other choice you have is to talk to him about it. why it would be soo akward.
ANOTHER choice you have is to FLIRT WITH HIM SISTAAA!!! that is what girls do best!! live a little..
dont be bummed about him!!
maybe you could even get someone to pursuade him about going out with you
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ok i really need some help i'm going out with this i boy i really like but my BF4L likes him too what do i do?
sincerly, i dont wannt break up with him (link)
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good news: he likes you and you like him, and you guys are going out. bad news:your BF4L lkes him too.
well maybe if your BF4L is fine with you going out with him then you should keep going out with him.. but maybe if she isnt fine with it, you need to make that descion of letting go and DEAR friend, or letting go a DEAR LOVER. that is a really hard descion.
you really shoudl talk to your BF4L about it...
erin :]
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okay so i like this guy at school and he likes someone else.. when i asked him out he said he would rather be friends WHAT DO I DO!!??
help! please (link)
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well if he likes someone else then.. theres not much you can do. you can either keep crushing on him and hope that he begins to liek you.. or you can just let hi mgo and infd someone else..
but thats not my decision.
come ask me more questiosn if you need help..
erinnn :]
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My friend has this guy at school that she likes, and he is always turning around in math asking her questions. But when they have math homework he always gets them right. She wants to know, is he flirting with her??? (link)
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YES he is DEFF. flirting with her. and she shoudl ask him out because form the looks of it. he likes her back.
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hey! i have a really big problem. so i dated this guy jake over a year ago now for almost 2 months. he dated thisgirl i knew and then they broke up after 2 years and me n him dated. which was quite crazy. anyways, we ended up breaking up bcz he cheated on me with her and they got back 2gether n have been on n off for almost a year. well, now he is dating sum other girl that idont know n the other day i messaged him on myspace, i havent talked 2 him since last year n i asked him for directions 2 get this oneplace we went 2 last year when we dated. he messaged back sayin he has nothing againts me n he knows he did some bogus shit n to give him a call ormessage when we wanna hangout for old times sake... so idont know if im taking this too overboard but he was my first realll bf that i reallylikedn my friend's birthday is coming up this weekend, and he knew her, thats how we met n began dating bcz his x was friends with my best friend n because of allthis she hated us... well i really do have feelings 4 him n want to ask him 2 come by but is it 2 weird?? but thing is... he never said sorry... what should i write back? thank you somuch (link)
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well ask him if he is goign to the party this weekend. but you know. if you would like to hook up with him again you really need to be careful. if he cheated on you and he never said sorry, do you think he regrets cheating on you? did he really liek you? you need to think abotu those things before you just go back out with him again and take another chance gettign your heart broken. im sure you will be able figure out weather he is right for you or not. just think abotu those questions i asked. think hard and carefully abotu them. your welcome...
erin :]
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i think i like this girl named (#$^%) but i dont think she likes me how should i get her attention?
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well are you friends with her? first. if you arent. then just say hi to her in the hall way. and go up to her locker and ask what you had for homework or something. and maybeb when you get to knwo her enough then ask her out.
and if you are her friend already and you know her enough ask her out to the movies or a date. and maybe to dance at a dance. it not that hard. and maybe you can have one of your friends tell her that you like her.. or have one of your friends ask her who she likes..
well good luckk..
erin :]
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i like this girl, well i think i do. She's goi'n out with sumone already. I don't know if i like her or im just jelous.
signed,
Totalconfused (link)
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No. you aren't jealous. You just a like a girl and she already had a bf. if you were jealous. then you would be trying to break them up, or sayign mean things to them. You like her. But that CAN turn into jealousy. so just remember. when you liek a girl and she has a bf... dont try to get in the way of that even if YOU want to go out with her. And if you think she deserves better... well maybe tell her that [if she is sensative.. i wouldnt though].. but if she REALLY deserves better, then she figure it out on her own.
just dont in the way of there relationship.. and if you tell her you like her, you will feel better abotu yourself, AND the direactions can change.. because she really could like you, and is tryign to make YOU jealous.
well good luck. hope you will take my advice.
erin :]
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I'm engaged and my wife to be is still friends with her ex-boyfriend. She even expects me to have dinner with them both if we move to the same city. He still wants to be with her, and she says that I don't understand that it is the mature thing to do. I think it is pretty straightforward: we should stay away from exes. No talking, no dinner. Am I crazy? (link)
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NO WAY! you are definatly not crazy about protecting your wife from her ex. you are just doing the job that you are supposed to do.
erin..
P.S:: just tell her that you are concerned that he will try to take her away from you.
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my boyfriend loves me and i know he does because he says it everyday.......but he is hanging out with this other girl and hes going to a concert with her tomorrow they only hang out because they both love switchfoot ALOT so i understand that....but now there is a rumor that he likes her and i hate it......wth should i do!!!
please help i ove this relationship too much :/ f/12 (link)
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well talk him about it. ask him if the rumor is true. and if you really love him you will let him go and trust him around other girls... sometimes it may not be fun, but you will have to face it one way or another. you cant just let him do this when you dont knwo if he really olikes her or doesnt.
well best of luck to you are your BF.
erin :]
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i like this guy. hes really nice, but all my friends think hes mean. its just that they dont know him like i do. i dont know if i should respect my friends, or go for what i like.
i just want them to know hes not as mean as he might seem [[hes just kidding around :/]] (link)
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okay. well if you liek this guy.. GOOD FOR YOU.. your friends may not like him but hey! you doo! dont let your friends get in the way between him and you. tell them he is joking. NEVER LET YOUR FRIENDS TRY TO GET IN BETWEEN THAT! even f it does mean losing them. you can always get new ones. but it is your choice. you can either listen to your friends and just forget the impossible. or go for what YOU want. and take the guy and make new friends.. sooner or later your friends will figure out that you would rather have someone who you can trust and always rely on.
good luckk
erin
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heyy..um well i have this friend&&she wants me to liket his one boy, and i don't even know him, but then there is this one boy t my school that i reallyyy..reallyy like.and he likes my best friend. wat should i do? (link)
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tell your friend you like someone else. she shoudl understand you. if she doesnt she isnt a real friend to you.
And if you like another boy, GREAT!! thats awesome!!
Have the best of luck.
erin
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