I am 19, in college studying communications, and working as an assistant teacher, tutor, and a literacy program case manager.
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Age: 19
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Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~ (link)
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Blaming his actions on being drunk and the fact that he wanted a break is no excuse.
He made the decision to drink and get drunk. Therefore, he has to be responsible for teh consequences. Most people know that they do stupid things when they are drunk, so if they go ahead and do it, they can't blame it on the booze.
And if he wanted to take a break, the way to do it was TALK to you about it, not cheat on you and then not take responsibility.
Not to be overly negative or excessively pick on your boyfriend, but anyone can call you babygirl. I could call you babygirl. That doesn't mean I want to be in a relationship with you.
You need to spend some time thinking about this situation and about how he's disrespected you. The decision is entirely yours
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Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused! (link)
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Really, before you make any decision, wait until you are 18. I know it's only a few days, but at least you will be legal when you make the decision. I obviously don't know you, or this guy, but often times, what guys really do want is sex. In that case, waiting until you are legal is the safest bet for both of you...especially since the age gap is so wide. Nine years isn't a huge deal, but you do have to consider that he is (or at least he should be) at a different place in life than you are. At 17/18 you are probably just finishing high school and are considering going to college. In most cases, people who are 27 have either graduated, or decided not to go to college and have spent those college-age years experiencing life. You have a lot of life ahead of you. Just make sure he's respectful of you and supports the decisions you make. Hope i helped.
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i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :( (link)
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Don't worry about what your friends are saying. You are dating your boyfriend, not your name-calling friends. If the kiss thing isn't working out, don't stress. The fact that the desire is there on both your sides means that it will come in time. One of you will make the move when the time is right.
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