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Sup, I'm Ashton.
Purple is my favorite color and I love the Little Mermaid.

Contrary to popular belief, I do act like the average 16-year-old girl sometimes. It is a known fact, however, that my mind is far ahead of my body - thus making me more mature than most adults.

Giving advice and helping people is something I love to do and I'm told I'm very good at it. I will do my best to help everyone I can to the best of my abilities but remember, I'm only sixteen.

Never be afraid to ask me anything. I won't judge anyone and I will always be here for you when you need me.

advice

There is a guy in my homeroom and I think he likes me but I'm not sure. Stuff he does: stares at me, always ask me if I want to hear one of his jokes, he wants me to touch him ( his head), and he is always trying to get close to me! I don't know what this means but I do have a crush on him.

He probably does by the way it sounds! That sounds like the kind of stuff guys do when they like a girl. But you don't want to do anything extreme in case he doesn't. Just kind of get a little flirty with him. Do a little cute laugh at his jokes, smile often, act sexy and interested, that kind of stuff - they eat it up. And since he stares at you a lot, try looking back at him when you notice him doing it, and if your eyes happen to meet, smile. Also, get a little closer to him - that will help a LOT. You'll find out soon enough!

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14/f
ok so this guy ive liked for one year started dating someone else. it hurts sooo much and i keep drinking to forget about it.
i dont wanna see them in school together and my stomach hurts so badly, i cant eat and i just feel like shit.
its the second time this has happened to me.
and hes not even that great. he drinks and smokes and is mean to his best friend :(
i still feel attracted to him

how can i get over him?????
please help me.
tell me why hes not worth it or smth. i really need to get it in my head

Well if you've liked him for over a year and hasn't asked you out, then he's not interested.

I went through the same thing, but all you have to do is just tell yourself that if he doesn't want you back, why should you want him?

Don't keep drinking, that's veryyyyy bad for you, but just focus on other things, play a game, go out with friends, get over his dumbass.

You seem like a very compassionate girl, and if he can't see that in you, then he doesn't deserve you at all.
(:

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15/m i don't know if i'm gay or not, but i'm sort of leaning towards being gay... i don't know what to do with myself.. i don't know if i should find someone and get things straight, or if i should wait for someone to show up... what should i do?

Oh dear.

Well, in order to be gay, you've got to be attracted to guys.
If you're not, then there's no hope in being gay.
But, if you are, and you truly have thought and considered being gay and WANT to be, then do it.
There's no shame in it.
Or be bi, and if one doesn't work, go the other way.
Simple as that, sweetie.
Good luck(:

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