I talk to the guy I like alot on AIM and alot in school. We're great friends but it seems like I always IM HIM! I don't know if he doesn't want to talk to me but when I IM him we usually get into long conversations but he never starts them. It's always me. Is this a hint he doesn't want to talk to me? If it then why do we always talk up a storm? Pleae help!!
x0x0x Hopelessly Devoted
13/F
That happens to me all the time :b Maybe you can ask him if he'd like you to IM him.
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hey im a female im 14 years old ok so there is this guy in my school who im like in love with and he liked me back so we went out 4 a week maybe then he dumped me and i was in schock cuz i really liked him so i called him and i talked to him about it and he says that he still likes me and everything but he dumped me cuz he didnt think i really liked him and he thought i was ganna dump him cuz i liked other guy and he said he will get to know me a lil more and then he might ask me out but i made a huge mistake while i was telling him how i like him i was telling another guy that i like him too so he figer out about it and he got all piassed at me and everything but i called him and i told him that i only did it cuz he hurt me and so i was just so deseparate so i went 4 someone who liked me well then he belived me and he said that he does like me but he wont ask me out cuz he doesnt know me and thats just piases me off really bad cuz like i really dont wanna be friends with him and if he likes me y wouldnt he go out with me like he already went out with me so i say it doesnt make any sense
please tell me what should i do or what should i say to get him back cuz i dont think i could go on with out him!
love ya lots!
Go out with him :) Sounds like you like him. You can always dump him if he pisses you off.
- The d0rk1e ArchAngel
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Hey.. This is pretty general. What are some basic signs that a guy likes you?
First of all, there are different signs for different guys. I'm not a guy (see username, would a guy have ArchAngel as their username?). Let's see... he might like you if he's being meaner to you than anyone else, unless he is a mean person in general or he hates you. He might be nice to you all the time. He might flirt with you. Or, he might tell you he likes you. He might look at you all the time. He might talk to you all the time. He might act all annoying and stuff. He might try to impress you. He might make eye contact with you all the time. I'm not a guy expert, so these traits may not apply at some point.
- The d0rk1e ArchAngel
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Hi
I'm very confused about my boyfriend as he is causing chaos in my life and I'm not sure what to do. I've been going out with him for 3 years and the first year was great, although we both had partners when we got together. He has a history of cheating on his girlfriends and treating them badly but I was prepared to give him the benefit of the doubt as he treated me so well. He was sweet, funny, attentive but the more I got to know him I realised that he wasn't the same person I thought I knew. He was also an amphetamine addict who eventually gave up and then was diagnosed with depression.
When I moved in with him last year I found him to be lying constantly, playing mind games, criticising me, being moody, shouting and blaming me for things that go wrong in his life. He has called me names, told me lies that are so obvious yet protests he's telling the truth. I also suspected he was having an affair with a woman around the corner from us which all the evidence pointed to. At the same time he was Mr Charming to everyone else as he manipulated people into thinking that he was a victim, and seemed to have this double personality.
I became so miserable and insecure that I moved out and 55 miles away to live with my parents, which he didn't seem to be bothered about. However within a few days he was ringing me, cying that he couldn't live without me, so I agreed to see him at weekends to help him through his depression. I was seeing him every weekend since May this year but he has only visited me 3 time in all that time, making excuses that he has no money (more lies). Then he hires cars for the weekend occasionally out of spite to prove that he indeed has money but still pretends he can't afford it! When I'm there he acts aloof and doesn't appreciate how much effort and money I spend to see him and doesn't make me feel special or loved. Yet when I'm away and refuse to answer his telephone calls he bombards me with phone calls making false promises of moving to be with me. He goes out with his friends drinking but when I visit he never seems to have any money to do anything and constantly complains about how worse off he is. I feel like I'm going mad as he acts like a different person, depending who he is with at the time. He even lies about when he sees his family and withholds conversation from me about their lives so I never know what he really does from one day to the next except what he wants to tell me.
Recently he sold his house at auction and made £60,000 but has nowhere to live and claims that he sold the house for my benefit!! He says he still can't afford to see me. The only thing he is interested in is me buying a house with him, but I don't even feel like he is my boyfriend who loves me. He has a history of bad credit and a CCJ. Should I trust him or is he using me? Why does he play these mind games with me and expect me to see him with promises he never keeps? Should I just dump him?
Thanks
Nicky
I think you should go with your own heart. And from what I heard, you don't really love him anymore and he's dragging you down along with him. You guys may have been great when you first met, but people change. Sometimes for the better, sometimes worse. If you don't want to dump him just yet, maybe you should try talking to him. If he lies to you all the same, we all know it's time to let go.
- The d0rk1e ArchAngel
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Okay, I like this guy we will call him M. I only have one class with him, but he sits at my table so we talk all the time. So I asked my friend K to see what he thought of me and K was like M said you were cool and he doesn't know if he like likes you and he doesn't know you that well. So I was talking to one of my friends online and hes like you should go for it and ask him out. I just don't want to get hurt again so quickly after my last crush. I don't want to rush things but I really want a b/f. What do you think I should do?
thanks
Maybe you can be friends with him for a while. Even if he doesn't like you right now he might once he knows you a lil better as a friend. If he does already, excellent. Being friends is just another way to hang out and avoid being teased. As many cheesy advice givers say, "follow your heart."
- The d0rk1e ArchAngel
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now lori and alex are going out( if u readed my other questions you know that i like alex) well anyways alex is still flirting with me and omg he stares right into my eyes forever and i stare back and its like he can read my mind. our eyes justlock with each others. he is always hitting me like just playing around and i hit him back and lori gets all mad. anyways he treats lori like shit like if he doesn't care about her and he lies to her. but thats only when i'm there with them or near them. what does this mean?
I think you should tell your friend about him flirting with you. Even if the two of you (you and Alex) likes each other, he is still dating Lori, therefore it's sorta cheating for him to flirt with you. Besides, if he treats her like shit and cheats on her, what makes you think he'll treat you right if you go out with him.
- The d0rk1e ArchAngel
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