Hey! im Aimee! i live in Marysville, washington! im 15. && im gonna be a sophmore :] i have reddish brown hair && im 5 foot 5. i love helping people && people say im good at giving advice.
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I've been going out with this boy, Jay for a little over a month. When we first met we clicked. He's one of the nicest boys i know and he treats me very well. The only thing is that he goes away to boarding school, which is about 20 minntutes away from my town, and his family lives around 45 minnutes away. It's very difficult to go and visit/ see Jay, because i'm always the one who has to do al the work for the relationship, and he is very seldom able to leave his campus. He also tends to be very dorky at times where i just look at him and am like, oh lord. And he makes gay jokes all the time, pretending to be gay with his friends and it comes off as a bit creepy as well. But overall he's a cute boy.
Theres also this other boy, Kyle, who goes to my school. He and i have been getting very close all of a sudden, and he really opens up to me. We talk about everything all the time, and he is extremely hot. He lives VERY close to me, so it's not a hassle to go and visit him. So i'm beginning to like Kyle.
I feel extremely awful for liking another boy while having a boyfriend, and ive only had two other boyfriends my entire life, and i'm seventeen. I feel as though i only go and visit my b/f Jay just because it's something to do. But when i'm with him i really like him. It's a confusing situation. I don't know if i'd be better off with Kyle from my town, or my boyfriend Jay. I really love hanging out with Jay and his firends, but when im not around them .. it's like i could care less.A
Bigger Dilemma..
Today Kyle asked me to go to the movies with him sometime this week. He knows that Jay and i haven't been getting along with our relationship too well and i guess that;s why he asked me. WOuld it be wrong to go to the movies with him? (i dont know if it would be as just friends or more) and should i stay with jay even thoguh i have feelings for someone else?! Thank you so much if you can help me. I RATE 5's to anyone who gives me SOME advice. THANKS!! (link)
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Well...
the question is.. what do you want?
you shouldnt be asking people for advice.. but i understand.
talk to jay.. and ask him what he wants.
and ask kyle if it'd be juss as friends or more.
kuz you dont wanna go if its gonna be more kuz that would be cheating.
im sure that jay will understand, but it sounds like yer only using jay as a kall for fun when yer bored. try staying w// jay for a while longer and if you still feel like this, then dump him!
i hope i helped!
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um ok well, first thing is i really like this guy names billy.. i dumped my boyfriend erik for him on halloween but that night i made out with this kid tom (which i shouldnt of done cos billys thinks im retarted now cos that his best friend) but even though i knew doing that was stupid i went to the funway dance last night and made out with his friend chris marvelle, which was alsoo stupid cos the beginning of the school year he made fun of me for making out with his other friend kevin.. wtf do i do kelli? (link)
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i dont get what you want answered.. but why would you make those mistakes TWICE in a row??????
thats not very nice.
but.. you should stop doing that kuz this guy will think yer a slut.
and nobody wants to be a slut.
so if i was you, i'd write an apology/love note explaining how dumb you were && that you wish you could take it back && you want to be with him.
i hope i helped.
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last night i went over my friends house for his birthday. the situation is hard to explain but, i really like him. i went out with him before but he broke up with me after 4 days. which i guess hardly counts. but we've been flirting ever since we broke up. i always flirt with him and i've hooked up with him a few times in the last few weeks. i know im not gonna be able to go out with him because of the way he is and cant stick to a commitment. so last night my best friend was cuddling with him on the couch. it was really ticking me off. she knows i like him and always yells at me for flirting with him so much because "im gonna get myself hurt" but last night she was all over him. i think he's mad at me. im not sure though... i wasnt supposed to be out last night. i said i was at a friends house because i wasnt supposed to be over this guys house. i also slept over his best friends house and he was there until 2:30 am before he went home. im sick of being hurt because i like him. and i try to stop liking him but i just cant. can anyone help? (link)
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i know how you feel. mee && my OLD best friend were like that. he dumped mee after 4 days 2. he liked us better as friends. and i still liked him.
but the reason you kant get over him, is because... he's always there. && when yer around somebody that you onced like, you start telling yerself.. "maybe i do like him.." but you dont know for sure. and i think that yer caught in a phase thats telling yerself that you like him, and thats why you "still like him && you kant stop"
and if he is skared of commitment... talk to him && tell him that if he's skared of commitment.. then why does he have friends? friends are commitment 2.
i hope i helped.
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ok well muh ex bf juss broke up with me last night. we went out for 3 weeks but we been talkin since da first week of school. and we talked a lot PRETTY much every night n in school. after he broke up with me i cried for about 20 min or so but now i dont really care dat we're not together or do I? bcuz da nite he broke up with me he went out n he was talking to this girl but she thinks hes just cute thats all they know each other bout 5 yrs now. but im so jelous EVEN THOUGHT THEY R JUS FRIENDS. im reali upset dat me n him wont talk as much anymore. i have to see him at school and same lunch table AUGH! BUT EVEN though it seems i have a lot of feelings for him still BUT I DONT! so do u think im right for being jelous and what should i do if he stops talking to me as much? (link)
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Ummm well....
its normal to like be jealous after you like him! its TOTALLY normal. its happened to mee. and you'll see him w// her && yeah you'll get jealous, but juss think... 'it was only 3 weeks'... thats not very much even though it may of felt like 6 months.
hope i helped.
byebye.
A I M E E
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