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I wanted to let you know that our relationship is doing alot better and that woman he was working with came over to talk to me and told me that she is not interested in black men and if he was white she still wouldnt want him he is not her type, he told me that he loves me in front of her and that he wants to be with me. She got fired last Sunday so I have a big relief that he is not working with her anymore, and the trust factor is going to be hard for a lil while because of past relationships I never let them back in my life after they cheated, but this time I am married and kids are involved. We talked through our problems and are seeking counseling. Thanks for your advice. Now my next question is how do I charm him to let him know that it still bothers me but I want to work it out of our relationship, it can be sexually or non-sexually, just think of something good and let me know. Thanks again for your advice. I love that their are people out there that really care. (link)
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I am so glad that things are working out for you! If it is possible, try to find a sitter outside of the house for the night. and plan a romantic night alone... Surprise him and greet him in his favorite nightie or nothing at all. Tell him this is the beginning of the rest of your lifetime marriage....Love him and believe in him....the rest will follow....good luck in everything that you do!!
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Hi I am Renee and my hubby Ray is working this job and he says it is for a better life for us but he is never home and when he is home all we do is argue, well he has cheated in the past so you know that runs in the back of my mind all the time but I took him back because I believe in my vows and it was great. Well now he works with this girl that is around all the time, and he comes home all hours of the night. My question is how do I make things right between us and get my point across with out fighting and make him understand me? I love him and I think I can trust him but I don't know how much. Please help me and tell me what I can do? (link)
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First of all....I hear you love your husband.... But the question is, Do you love yourself? I respect you for wanting to abide by your vows, but that stance only works if you both are. Also, if you trusted him, none of this would be going through your mind.
If you want to have a conclusion to the issue, you are going to need to stand up for yourself...and demand his respect regarding this woman. I would also reccomend that you seek couples counceling. Most churches offer some type of marital counceling. Good luck and please let me know how it works out.
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